Topic: WHY?
coryM18's photo
Mon 12/17/07 02:35 PM
shrek

ZacharyRyan's photo
Mon 12/17/07 02:38 PM



i remember meeting this hot guy in a club real yummy, personalty of a gnat, bored me silly, i left him after 5 minutes it was either that or die of boredom


this is because women look for other characteristics in long-term mates - their ability to provide, their compassion, etc.

if you were just looking to get laid one time, your DNA would definitely prefer that you bang the hunky guy compared to the homely one from MENSA - it's just genetics, sweetie :tongue:
darling how can you lay a guy who would be worrying wether he looks good in that position or the other, plus he might haved messed his hair, would have been a shame lol i prefer someone who can laugh and make me smile

of course you do, because you are woman and it is unlikely that you were looking for a one night stand at the time (feel free to correct me if I'm wrong laugh )

us guys, our DNA tells us to act differently - and most women don't seem to appreciate that :tongue:

no photo
Mon 12/17/07 02:39 PM

can anyone give me a mature, logical answer to this question?


why are people so obsessed with looks? when did looking good replace having a good personality?


(please no smart ass remarks, this is a serious post)


Not being a "smartass"..but do you seriously have to ask such a question!!???

It all started when....well lets see..SINCE THE BEGINNING OF HUMAN EXISTENCE!!!!

Its only posted and shown THROUGHOUT HISTORY! So instead of asking here...go read all about it, throughout history..heck, you might even learn some other things too about "humanity" and how "men and women" have certain traits and characteristics built in.

Because thats much too broad of a question to simply ask and get any type of "readers digest" version answer here.

Good luck! bigsmile

azrae1l's photo
Mon 12/17/07 02:39 PM
i would say it's probably society telling us what to believe agian.....

DebbieJT's photo
Mon 12/17/07 02:41 PM




i remember meeting this hot guy in a club real yummy, personalty of a gnat, bored me silly, i left him after 5 minutes it was either that or die of boredom


this is because women look for other characteristics in long-term mates - their ability to provide, their compassion, etc.

if you were just looking to get laid one time, your DNA would definitely prefer that you bang the hunky guy compared to the homely one from MENSA - it's just genetics, sweetie :tongue:
darling how can you lay a guy who would be worrying wether he looks good in that position or the other, plus he might haved messed his hair, would have been a shame lol i prefer someone who can laugh and make me smile

of course you do, because you are woman and it is unlikely that you were looking for a one night stand at the time (feel free to correct me if I'm wrong laugh )

us guys, our DNA tells us to act differently - and most women don't seem to appreciate that :tongue:
oh i appreciate you guys think differently hun lol but do think about what you look like in bed with a girl lol

no photo
Mon 12/17/07 02:43 PM

i did try coco honest but he was to busy posing to chat


ROFL..wish I could post the old "Hollywood Squares" answers to questions up here somehow.

A good one for this would be...

Q. According to Cosmopolitan, if you meet a stranger at a party and you think that he is attractive, is it okay to come out and ask him if he's married?
A. Rose Marie: No; wait until morning

ZacharyRyan's photo
Mon 12/17/07 02:43 PM
think about what we'd look like in bed with a girl?

I'm sure we all think about that laugh

DebbieJT's photo
Mon 12/17/07 02:44 PM

think about what we'd look like in bed with a girl?

I'm sure we all think about that laugh
will have to get you wall to wall mirrors then so you can pose:tongue:

mbcasey's photo
Mon 12/17/07 02:45 PM
This is a shallow answer, but if you are unhappy with the results you are seeking in the dating world, because you say it is your looks, then why not change your looks?

I was obese, and I didn't think women wanted to date me because of that. I did something about it and lost 120 lbs. Also, why are you relying on someone finding you and accepting you? Like everything else in life, if you want something, you have to go out and get it.

Good luck to you!

no photo
Mon 12/17/07 02:45 PM
My first wife was drop dead beautiful. When we divorced she was a convicted felon and thief. But I was a doped up drunkard, so we got what we deserved. Sometimes the online pics don't tell the whole story either, especially if there is only one.

ZacharyRyan's photo
Mon 12/17/07 02:47 PM


think about what we'd look like in bed with a girl?

I'm sure we all think about that laugh
will have to get you wall to wall mirrors then so you can pose:tongue:


laugh

my aunt used to have ceiling mirrors ... bigsmile

coryM18's photo
Mon 12/17/07 02:47 PM
i've been looking for awhile

DebbieJT's photo
Mon 12/17/07 02:49 PM



think about what we'd look like in bed with a girl?

I'm sure we all think about that laugh
will have to get you wall to wall mirrors then so you can pose:tongue:


laugh

my aunt used to have ceiling mirrors ... bigsmile
ah well you can practise the posing when your aunt is out lol

DebbieJT's photo
Mon 12/17/07 02:50 PM

i've been looking for awhile
looking for what?????

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Mon 12/17/07 02:50 PM

This is a shallow answer, but if you are unhappy with the results you are seeking in the dating world, because you say it is your looks, then why not change your looks?

I was obese, and I didn't think women wanted to date me because of that. I did something about it and lost 120 lbs. Also, why are you relying on someone finding you and accepting you? Like everything else in life, if you want something, you have to go out and get it.

Good luck to you!


It is'nt allways about weight...
Sometimes people have Birth defects,scars, etc...
Things that they can not change about their appearence.
Some people can't see beyound- what they consider bad looking.
That is what I meant by shallow...

ZacharyRyan's photo
Mon 12/17/07 02:53 PM

ah well you can practise the posing when your aunt is out lol


in my younger years, I practiced more than posing in that bed while she was out laugh

(yes, I washed the sheets before she came back into town laugh )

coryM18's photo
Mon 12/17/07 02:54 PM
looking for someone who i can love and be loved by, i know i'm only 18 but, that seems to be the only void in my life.

DebbieJT's photo
Mon 12/17/07 02:55 PM

looking for someone who i can love and be loved by, i know i'm only 18 but, that seems to be the only void in my life.
well im 39 hun and the void is still there buy hey im positive about wont give till im at least 40 lol

DebbieJT's photo
Mon 12/17/07 02:57 PM


ah well you can practise the posing when your aunt is out lol


in my younger years, I practiced more than posing in that bed while she was out laugh

(yes, I washed the sheets before she came back into town laugh )
laugh naughty naughty lol

coryM18's photo
Mon 12/17/07 02:58 PM
39? no way! not trying to be nice, just sating the facts

you do not look 39