Topic: must read
Yanasha Caspe Calang's photo
Thu 01/09/20 01:48 AM
Must Read!!!!

Here's the truth, ladies.

Being pretty doesn't keep a man. Being honest doesn't keep a man.
Being loyal doesn't keep a man.
Treating a man good doesn't keep a man. Being there for a man doesn't keep a man. Caring about a man doesn't keep a man. Making an effort doesn't keep a man.
Paying attention to a man doesn't keep a man.
Spending time with a man doesn't keep a man.
You could have the best intentions, you could have the most sincere feelings, and you could be a good woman and you still wouldn't be able to keep a man because the only way to keep a man is if that man wants to be kept by you.
You can't force a man to be with you. You can't beg a man to stay with you. You can't love a man into loving you. With a man, you could tell he wants to be kept when the relationship gets hard and he does everything to fight for you because a man only fights for a girl he wants to belong to so if he isn't fighting for you when things get hard, then that means he doesn't want to be kept by you anymore.

The moral of this? Don't hold on to a man who doesn't want to be kept by you. No, you're not giving up on him. It's him who gave up on you, and it's you who shouldn't waste any more of your time than you already have. Know when it's time to let go, know when it's time to walk away, and know when it's time for him to be unkept.

iceman21457's photo
Thu 01/09/20 02:05 AM
iff i had a woman do half of that wholeheartedly it would have held me in place, And im sure if you replace the word man with woman it would also hold true. We can only have those near us that want to be. But let it go when its time, and if ever been in a relationship that didnt make it, we know when it was time. Its not worth the heartache and pain and even hate it brings out. Then we just end up being bitter and resentful. Took me along time to get past some issues and only because i did learn i didnt deserve what i went thru. We all deserve what makes us happy.

Tarun's photo
Thu 01/09/20 02:07 AM
Beautiful post

potato420's photo
Thu 01/09/20 03:15 AM
Well, when you live in the only country on the face of the Earth without divorce, it's safe to say women are going to cling to crummy guys. Oh, I know TONS of great, awesome, amazing Filipino guys. But they're all taken by awesome Filipina women. Sorry to disappoint.

Yanasha Caspe Calang's photo
Thu 01/09/20 03:50 AM
yeah i know but Not all filipina here are taken☺

Yanasha Caspe Calang's photo
Thu 01/09/20 03:51 AM
thank you

Yanasha Caspe Calang's photo
Thu 01/09/20 03:52 AM
indeed!:sparkles:

Bill's photo
Sat 01/11/20 08:10 PM
I tried filipina. I am still looking. They are beautiful. Hard working women.
For the most part.
There are some who do anything they must to survive.
But they are great women.

Ali's photo
Sun 01/12/20 04:19 AM
hello