Topic: should i or shouldn't i
mary18's photo
Sun 12/16/07 10:04 PM
i am dating a guy and we've only been together a week. i've known him for about 2 months though
so christmas is around the corner.
should i get him a present or no?
is it to early in the relationship?
i don't know what to do.

johncarl's photo
Sun 12/16/07 10:06 PM
yes yes yes. it is ok:smile:

TXHardWorker's photo
Sun 12/16/07 10:07 PM
A gift is a gift is a gift. If it's something you want to do for him, regardless of the relationship, then do so. WHAT you buy might be more poignant. Don't buy cologne or something that personal, unless you're really wanting to make a statement.

CaptainSpaz's photo
Sun 12/16/07 10:07 PM
Just don't get something TOO extravagant.

itsmetina's photo
Sun 12/16/07 10:08 PM
i'd give one but not to expensive.

johncarl's photo
Sun 12/16/07 10:08 PM
i think love is in the air:smile:

mary18's photo
Sun 12/16/07 10:08 PM
so far i've gotten him a shirt. its really nice though.

FireFairyGirl's photo
Sun 12/16/07 10:08 PM

Just don't get something TOO extravagant.


i agree...just make it something simple

no photo
Sun 12/16/07 10:08 PM

A gift is a gift is a gift. If it's something you want to do for him, regardless of the relationship, then do so. WHAT you buy might be more poignant. Don't buy cologne or something that personal, unless you're really wanting to make a statement.


Agreed! Good advice! happy

shutterbug63's photo
Sun 12/16/07 10:16 PM
Well I think a shirt is a wonderful gift. I would leave it at that, maybe a little card, and see how things go from there. I'm thinking you must really like this guy if you're doing that for him. I wish you luck and he's lucky to have you for his gf from what I see.

Desi1's photo
Sun 12/16/07 10:44 PM
the shirt is fine, but make sure its just the shirt.....lol

gigm's photo
Mon 12/17/07 12:48 AM
i give all my close friends gifts, so i don't think the fact that your now in a relationship should stop you for giving him one,

BlueskyJ's photo
Mon 12/17/07 12:58 AM


Give the guy a gift....my gf gave me a GPS, now I can find my way out of the desert....after I'm done eating....

no photo
Mon 12/17/07 05:43 AM
i think a little present is ok for now, then BIG next time :smile:

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Mon 12/17/07 06:02 AM
I am in the same situation and just had this conversation with him Saturday night. I told him I don't think we know each other well enough at this point. I would have no clue what to get him, nor even what size he might wear. I guess I'm most afraid he would buy me something horrid and I would be forced to wear it!!

no photo
Mon 12/17/07 06:04 AM
well who is buying me a christmas gift???