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Topic: does this sound like bs to you?
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Tue 12/18/07 12:26 PM

think.. wonder? why? it's like tryin to hold in a good joke....just cant justify it!
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at least I have a pic

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Tue 12/18/07 01:19 PM

Also, if you put that much into a chat room meeting you should be checkin yourself...theres a hint of desperation in you thats a turn off especially now seeing your reaction to rejection from a stranger, i'd be afraid to get to know you any better


Ask a woman

Whoops! There goes a woman right now!

oldsage's photo
Tue 12/18/07 01:29 PM
gangsta, think you have much to learn; letting go of control, accepting what life gives you & maybe how to be a little more polite, in your conversation.
But what do I know, I'm just an old sage.
(might look that up)

lily38's photo
Tue 12/18/07 08:00 PM
I totally agree with the folks who advised you to chill out. I never make plans to date a guy I have just met through the internet....doesn't matter if we talked 24 hours a dayl for a week. 3 days, 1 day.....whatever the case may be, you are portraying yourself as desperate and bitter. This girl didn't owe you anything. For all you know she could have been a guy PRETENDING to be a girl. What would that do for your love life? She was straight up with you, (early on), and told you she wasn't seeing it happening....so you come here and fly into a tyrrade of insults and incessant girl bashing? You are offensive. If the girl spoke with you that little amount of time, then decided it wasn't going to work....there is a good chance it was something you said or did. Maybe you came off as "needy" and "clingy", which are BIG turn-offs for women.
She DID NOT owe you a THING! NADA, ZILCH, ZIP.......get over it before you totally embarrass yourself further.

CaRisLOVE's photo
Tue 12/18/07 08:19 PM
i know how you feel
you gotta take it slow and see if she is for real, they just like to tease she wouldnt just say dat witout any proper explanation
dont pursue untill she wants to be caught!
:wink:

lonelyshorty's photo
Tue 12/18/07 08:24 PM
I'm sorry this happened to you, but i agree with lily get over it. Just because one girl did this to you doesnt mean all women will do this to you. She wasnt worth it, so stop worrying about it. It was rude what she did though and she should have said "its not working i'm sorry." I would know. I went out with a guy three times and we were texting one night. All of a sudden he just stopped texting me. He normally texts me during the day when he can and he didnt the next day. He didnt call me or anything. He ignored me. It would have been better if he just said, "Its not working or I met someone else" then to just ignore me. I'd rather have someone tell me I'm a b*tch to my face then tell everyone else. People shouldnt beat around the bush, and the funny thing is that is something he told me. grumble

CaRisLOVE's photo
Tue 12/18/07 08:30 PM

I'm sorry this happened to you, but i agree with lily get over it. Just because one girl did this to you doesnt mean all women will do this to you. She wasnt worth it, so stop worrying about it. It was rude what she did though and she should have said "its not working i'm sorry." I would know. I went out with a guy three times and we were texting one night. All of a sudden he just stopped texting me. He normally texts me during the day when he can and he didnt the next day. He didnt call me or anything. He ignored me. It would have been better if he just said, "Its not working or I met someone else" then to just ignore me. I'd rather have someone tell me I'm a b*tch to my face then tell everyone else. People shouldnt beat around the bush, and the funny thing is that is something he told me. grumble


you wouldnt do this to me lol
now would you?
bigsmile

lonelyshorty's photo
Tue 12/18/07 08:43 PM
I wouldnt do that. I would tell you straight up if it wasnt working. :tongue:

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