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Boy am I glad I don't have these problems. Glad I'm single. I hate red flags.
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Amen brother!!!!
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I smell a wife, not an ex wife, and would also ask him, and also for a copy of the orders, of separation, and access to substantiate that he is genuinely separated and about to be divorced.
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Communicate with your BF clearly, if after clear commuication you feel there is something going on between your BF and his ex, cut it off. It maybe hard, but it would b the best thing to do. IMO
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WOW! I agree with the general consensus. Be very careful, because something seems a bit off!
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OH wow, I've been in this situation. Tread VERY lightly here babe. Just a few months before I joined JSH I was with a man who was separated, and whom I thought was about to be divorced. It turned out that he and she were BOTH psycho. He tried to kill me so I then realized WHY the split was so messy. Of course she was dumb enough to go back with him after he tried to kill me... she thought that meant she won. I saw it as I won b/c I wasn't with him anymore...lol.
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Ive seen the papers...........LOL it was one of the first thing's i asked for...........like i said i 've talked with all the kids except the oldest girl........the 17 year old step daughter even told me she really doesn't like mom's BF and hopes she won't go through with the marriage.......she acts a lot like my ex..........irregardless it doesn't matter anymore as i've been removed from the situation so to speak.........LOL
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Edited by
Jeepinfool
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Tue 12/18/07 09:10 PM
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garaunteed he is playing games with both of you. you are now the one who has to decide if you want to keep playing or forfeit, i have seen this one to many times with friends. by the way divorce papers are not final until they have been submitted and they have gone to court, so chances are he is still married, but wants to keep you on the side, classic....
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Ive seen the papers...........LOL it was one of the first thing's i asked for...........like i said i 've talked with all the kids except the oldest girl........the 17 year old step daughter even told me she really doesn't like mom's BF and hopes she won't go through with the marriage.......she acts a lot like my ex..........irregardless it doesn't matter anymore as i've been removed from the situation so to speak.........LOL |
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WOW Ice!!! Sounds like a mess to me...
You better do some digging of your own. I hope you don't get hurt- in all this. Yet- I can't help but wonder why this woman is going through all this trouble to mess with you? Getting back at hubby- this seems a bit extreme? Something smells fishy in denmark to me... (((Ice))) |
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Let's see i ignored her and i received a message this morning that we need to talk about our relationship his son can't handle it right now and he feels he can't give me the time i deserve and like he doesn't have enough time for me.......but wait he loves me doesn't want to lose me and wants me in his life..........is this mixed messages or am i just a moron......i basically made it easy on him i told him i understand i don't expect anything from him and hey life moves on.......I knew i should have ran when i first wanted too My Dear Ice, I am sorry to say this, but he is playing you big time by the sounds of it. As someone said, he got caught doing somethign he shouldnt and is now trying to back out. Not only that but I can see some domination issues going on as well. What I mean is he is trying to control you while he does what he wants (which is put the fire out at home and cover his own arse) he wants you to wait on him while he does what he wants. This is just my opinion, but it is how I am reading it. |
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The most important question is...
IcePrincess, are you hanging in there okay? You said you are distancing yourself and being the bigger person so to speak. No matter the what's or why's of the situation, it still sucks and we all have your back. Hugs, M |
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