Topic: Waiting
stevenpwis's photo
Sun 12/16/07 04:25 PM
are you really a 36 year old virgin?

Mossop's photo
Sun 12/16/07 04:25 PM

Why are so many guys turned off by ladies who want to marry before giving up sex? Aren't there any guys left who still respect and honor that covenant? I want a relationship built upon respect, love, friendship, and yes sex after marriage. Is it really too much to ask for these days?


Would you buy a car if you had no idea what it was like to drive laugh

zman000081's photo
Sun 12/16/07 04:26 PM
Hun the problem is that most women over 30 are not virgins. Sex is usually a part of life by then. I respect your status but its not everyones cup of tea.

someonespecial111's photo
Sun 12/16/07 04:27 PM
I know other people have different views, and I respect their opinions, but I believe that sex should be one of the perks of marriage. If you really know your spouse and really love and care for them, and communicate with them honestly, then lovemaking will be good.

someonespecial111's photo
Sun 12/16/07 04:28 PM
Yes I am.

someonespecial111's photo
Sun 12/16/07 04:29 PM
If the car was from an honest and trustworthy new car dealer, yes.

buttons's photo
Sun 12/16/07 04:30 PM
but lovemaking wont be good when u find out after u are married that hes always limp:wink:

stevenpwis's photo
Sun 12/16/07 04:30 PM
there are no honest and trustworthy car dealers

someonespecial111's photo
Sun 12/16/07 04:31 PM
If you honestly and openly communicate before marriage, then you would already know that he is always limp.

seahawks's photo
Sun 12/16/07 04:31 PM

but lovemaking wont be good when u find out after u are married that hes always limp:wink:
lol

stevenpwis's photo
Sun 12/16/07 04:32 PM
I respect the decision and respect my girlfriend, but what if it isn't enjoyable after marriage, it is hard to back out after being married.

someonespecial111's photo
Sun 12/16/07 04:33 PM
I am sorry, but that is untrue. I have bought 2 brand new cars in the past 10 years and have been very happy with the dealership and quality of the car.

buttons's photo
Sun 12/16/07 04:33 PM
so true..... but that is something they really arent proud of... and really like to hide that fact.... or fail to mention it...

someonespecial111's photo
Sun 12/16/07 04:34 PM
Whatever happened to the concept of practice and communication. Listen to your spouse and find out how to make the lovemaking better.

buttons's photo
Sun 12/16/07 04:35 PM
i will just hope u get luckyflowerforyou flowerforyou cause u deserve it!

no photo
Sun 12/16/07 05:38 PM
Edited by ChiefPUA on Sun 12/16/07 05:38 PM
Most people would want to test drive before buying the car because a car is a significant commitment financially. When you increase the level of commitment to something like marriage, more people would want to "test drive" what they are considering investing a commitment in.

I suggest attending various churches regularly if you don't already do so. You may find more men with values similar to yours there.

mistyblue2012's photo
Sun 12/16/07 05:43 PM
Very cool that you want to wait.....I'm weak because I would need to know I clicked intimately with that person before I woke up with that person every morning. I want to wake up with a soul mate and lover, not a best friend! But I have so much respect for those that wait till after marriage. Several of my friends did that and they happily married today!

nurjoyce's photo
Sun 12/16/07 05:45 PM
hey misty
how are you?

i agree with misty

no photo
Sun 12/16/07 05:47 PM

Most people would want to test drive before buying the car because a car is a significant commitment financially. When you increase the level of commitment to something like marriage, more people would want to "test drive" what they are considering investing a commitment in.

I suggest attending various churches regularly if you don't already do so. You may find more men with values similar to yours there.


Oh come on Cheif, you know in church MOST alter boys aren't virgins! noway :tongue: laugh bigsmile

(its a joke folks!)

mistyblue2012's photo
Sun 12/16/07 05:49 PM
Hey Nurjoyce...
I just need to find someone that I actually want to be intimate with, that would be a pretty cool start!
I feel invisible to the outside world sometimes.