If you could indulge in one of the following tonight, which would you choose?

A quickie

A massage

A heart-to-heart conversation

A scrumptious meal with a heavenly dessert


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A massage. I am getting too much tension in my shoulders...

I took this poll and I since I live alone, a quickie and a heart-to-heart conversation are out of the question, I am not into massages, so I chose a scrumptious meal with a heavenly dessert lol.

The result of that poll was this....

Not surprisingly, the number one choice among the men was a quickie, which was the last thing in women’s mind. Women would rather have a massage, which was the third choice among the men.

Here comes the surprise. The second popular choice for both men and women, was a heart-to-heart conversation. Wow! I thought men would rather have a root canal than have a heart-to-heart conversion. haha who knew?

And that scrumptious meal with a heavenly dessert, I had chosen? It came third among the women, and last among the men.

Conclusion: Put sex in the mix and men forget to eat.

Ladywind, most popular answer among women is a massage
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A quickie

So far for women...

1 - A massage
1 - A quickie

Thank you for participating, Sheri

I enjoy participating as much as i can.
Happy Holidays!

Now that's a conclusion I can believe!

That is a surprise rosie, I would have thought the heart-to-heart would have been last with men, with a quickie being first and the meal second.

define quickie then i'll answer

I can't do quickie's, so a really longy, but I gotta know em as a friend, and it's not there as an option anyway....

I give massages... apparently I do decently, as Masseuses come to me after I designed their spa , I never take them, so naa....

heart to heart, if I have two wing-back chairs in front of a massive fireplace in an old library....

I'm trying to cut up, so no food

so it's to

The heart to heart conversation :)

A massage.
They last longer than quickie's and it's okay to be selfish and just enjoy them.
Plus when done right they absolutely reduce stress and tension and are healthy.

Quickie's are annoying. If you're going to do something, put the time and effort into it and do it well.

I already ate, so not really feeling the scrumptious meal and dessert.

And I don't really know what you mean by "heart to heart" conversations.
IME that generally translates to "Communication in the relationship sucks, so occasionally I have to ejaculate buried emotions and thoughts after artificially creating a safe space for me to do so and I expect you to immediately reciprocate and know how to respond in an expected way to things I've been cogitating upon for days/weeks/months, ambushing you with it."

A conversation
I get my kicks above the waistline sunshine

From the musical chess
one night having your cock banged
Or something like that

Happy Holidays to you too, Sheri

Great! now I gotta listen to that song, grmble...
And thank God I'm only watching the game controlling it...

I thought so too, river. But apparently, quickie first and then if they don't fall asleep after, they are ready for heart-to-heart

I know you love massages, so would that be your choice?

oh eric, wham bam thank you ma'am

I do love massages rosie! I already had a heart to heart with my son this evening, and it's pizza night so the scrumptious meal's not an option. So that just left a massage and a quickie... I'm still thinking!




..... Okay, massage it is!

lol sadly, a longy was not a choice, but too funny, darkowl

Awww you chose heart-to-heart, you are really a sweetie

So far for men:

1 - A heart-to-heart conversation

Thank you for participating, my friend

So far for women...

1 - A massage
1 - A quickie
1 - A heart-to-heart conversation
0 - A scrumptious meal with a heavenly dessert

Thank you for participating, Crystal