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Being in a relationship means you’re in a relationship with your entire partner; you can’t pick and choose which parts you do and don’t like. Along with the good comes the bad, and being a partner means embracing all of someone.
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Sounds like you have it locked down... I hope you find someone fantastic!
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Yes in a perfect world. Who you kidding
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You actually are allowed to dislike things.
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Its one thing to say you accept the good with the bad.
Its an entirely different thing when you have to live it. Accepting someone is not about accepting the good with the bad. Its about removing all your expectations about who you think that person should be. Accepting them at face value without influence. It involves trying to understand why they do what they do. It involves realizing they make their own decisions because it is actually their own life they are living. It involves compassion and reason and the ability to realize when their nature is not what you want in your life. Ya can't really fault someone for their bad. You can realize their bad may or may not be what you want in your life. If you can accept their bad with the good realize, it is communication, honest communication that keeps the bad in check. Try to realize they may see you in the same way. |
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