Topic: I wish I could just disapear.
IntelligentLady's photo
Sat 12/15/07 10:33 PM

I wish I could click my heels together, and vanish from this world of pain and lies.


The only truth I have found is in my family, and people that live thousands of miles away.


Oh, and my two faithful dogs.

I am so tired of being hurt.

Dosnt anyone know how to love anymore ?


and yet my biological family is where I find the least truth...it's amazing how my friends care more than those that created me...

Desi1's photo
Sun 12/16/07 11:06 PM
the beat thing to do is stop looking for people to help you, help yourself and most of alllove yourself if you dont love an have faith in self how can you ask others to, i was told by my mother n father as a child bump what people say or thing of you love yourself cause god loves all.......

celticfairy's photo
Sun 12/16/07 11:22 PM
Hugs for you klugman flowerforyou I know how you feel will get better promiseflowerforyou

Khaki45's photo
Mon 12/17/07 12:30 PM
Edited by Khaki45 on Mon 12/17/07 12:32 PM
Dude I really know how you feel trust me. I feel your pain.
But when your feeling this rejected, it doesnt hurt to be selfish and take care of yourself first. Make your self happy. Do something that makes you and only you happy. Thats the only true remedy for rejection or depression. Cause if you wallow in self pity, yet still are trying to date, you will get no where. You have to make yourself feel better first, then pick yourself up where you left off.

oldsage's photo
Mon 12/17/07 12:38 PM
Klugman drop me a line & let's chat.
Been there, got the shirt.
Got to learn to look for the good & forget the sour.
I learned that & the world became a lot easier.
Accept what I can change & ignore what I can't.

pashen37's photo
Mon 12/17/07 12:41 PM
to all the above..thank you for those words i am feeling a dark shade of blue myself..and klugman,keep on fighting it will get a bit better soonflowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

klugman's photo
Mon 12/17/07 12:57 PM
Edited by klugman on Mon 12/17/07 12:58 PM
Hey everybody, Thanks for all the wisdom on these pages.

I now realize I did nothing to deserve the pain I recieved.
I could have done nothing different in the relationship.
I was the best I could be, plus some.
I'm glad it happened, it would have hurt worse further down the road.
I still hurt, I still wonder where she is, and what she is doing.
I wish I could just turn it off, but I cant.
I know that there is a special person out there, who will appreciate the deep love that I am capable of giving.
I am just gonna take enough time to figure it all out, instead of jumping right into a relationship.

Again, Thankyou from the bottom of my heart.

I love ALL of my JSH friends, they are the best friends I can have.


Dan

Kris38123's photo
Mon 12/17/07 11:25 PM
Most of the folks here are the bomb!! It helps me also to hear what they have to say and to get in on a few good laughs! Thanks ya'll!

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Tue 12/18/07 02:05 AM
I guess EMO spans generations now... Now you have to grow your bangs out to where one eye is covered and wear eyeliner and girl's pants and ur all set! Haha, and then there's the cutting, I'd start small, I hear its painful.laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

J/K...lol, not trying to offend just tryin to make you laugh...

yokoke's photo
Tue 12/18/07 09:03 AM

I keep trying to convince myself that if I just wait until after the holidays, people will stop whining. I think I'll buy stock in Kleenex.

Whiny men are hawt.

yawn


BUY BUY BUY............. count me in on that stock.....laugh

I heard they were thinking of renaming the site from Just Say Hi to Just Whinelaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh Then the California Liquor Control board stepped in to verify Wine over Whine for domain, red tape or white tape, bordeuxs too, AA memberships, paperwork, so leaving it as JSH.....
bigsmile


celticfairy's photo
Tue 12/18/07 09:44 AM
Ah Klugsman you need to come to the Island of saints and scholars, We are the worst romantics in the world, will take you to the farie ring and get you captured by our mythical warrior queens, and when you get home all will be wiped from your memory except getting back to our land. Ok the weather is crap, but other than that you will be happy.
Hugs Billie

klugman's photo
Tue 12/18/07 01:57 PM

Ah Klugsman you need to come to the Island of saints and scholars, We are the worst romantics in the world, will take you to the farie ring and get you captured by our mythical warrior queens, and when you get home all will be wiped from your memory except getting back to our land. Ok the weather is crap, but other than that you will be happy.
Hugs Billie


Sounds wonderful...I'll take it !!!

Jeepinfool's photo
Tue 12/18/07 09:54 PM
no my friend, we as a human race forgot along time ago on how to love, but there is that small pocket of believers that are still out there, so keep the faith, brother...

TxsGal3333's photo
Thu 12/20/07 06:24 AM
Awwww Dan in time my friend in time things will work out for the best and you will find the one that is worthy of you for who you are and the person inside. Just hang in there and dont let them get your down. It will all work out in the end.bigsmile flowerforyou bigsmile

klugman's photo
Thu 12/20/07 12:47 PM
Just when I thought I was starting to get over things, today her X husband picks her up from work in the truck that wasnt running that I have been paying the insurance on.

I am such a fool.

CaRisLOVE's photo
Thu 12/20/07 05:10 PM
you and me both brother
im sick of girls playing games
and yet await for them show they are

seahawks's photo
Thu 12/20/07 05:11 PM

Just when I thought I was starting to get over things, today her X husband picks her up from work in the truck that wasnt running that I have been paying the insurance on.

I am such a fool.
klug how goes it ya silly mofo.!!!! lol

no photo
Thu 12/20/07 05:12 PM
i wish i could disappear i would consider myself quite talented if i ever did

seahawks's photo
Thu 12/20/07 05:13 PM

i wish i could disappear i would consider myself quite talented if i ever did
i would miss ya huggzz.
!!!!!

no photo
Thu 12/20/07 05:14 PM
laugh laugh laugh God sea what would you do without me? laugh laugh