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Topic: Dating 3 Guys At A Time...
mgilligan Joined Wed 12/12/07 Posts: 63	Sat 12/15/07 12:01 PM
I say give it a shot. Not everyone dates three people but in the beggining stages of dating you are just trying to get to know each other. There really isn't any commitment at that point yet so there is no real reason you shouldn't be open to dating other people. The thing is you can't date three people for very long. as things develope past the getting to know each other stage you will see things working better with some than others and will usually narrow themselves down naturally. As long as you are upfront with the guys you are dating and they know you aren't committed to just them for now have at it meet some people and enjoy. Thats why its just dating and not a relationship. Be warned it sounds like alot of fun but at least from personal experience it is not all its cracked up to be. Most people have trouble dealing with a single relationship, you start trying to make 3 of them work and things get really difficuilt, but it can be a fun rewarding way to see what you like about each guy and compare to find the one who is really right for you.

Swimforrealsgirl Joined Thu 05/03/07 Posts: 399	Sat 12/15/07 12:01 PM
heh heh...

klugman Joined Mon 03/19/07 Posts: 1776	Sat 12/15/07 12:01 PM
go for it guys do it I dont. I'm a one woman man. Always have been. You're 1 in a MILLION. It seems guys I talk to lately want to play with their _____________, phone sex and GO NOWHERE...That's why I'm re-thinking my options....DATE 3 AT A TIME...OR MORE... I'm sure there are more like me...

Swimforrealsgirl Joined Thu 05/03/07 Posts: 399	Sat 12/15/07 12:03 PM
I say give it a shot. Not everyone dates three people but in the beggining stages of dating you are just trying to get to know each other. There really isn't any commitment at that point yet so there is no real reason you shouldn't be open to dating other people. The thing is you can't date three people for very long. as things develope past the getting to know each other stage you will see things working better with some than others and will usually narrow themselves down naturally. As long as you are upfront with the guys you are dating and they know you aren't committed to just them for now have at it meet some people and enjoy. Thats why its just dating and not a relationship. Be warned it sounds like alot of fun but at least from personal experience it is not all its cracked up to be. Most people have trouble dealing with a single relationship, you start trying to make 3 of them work and things get really difficuilt, but it can be a fun rewarding way to see what you like about each guy and compare to find the one who is really right for you. Truer words were never spoken. Just thought I'd give it a shot. Who knows?

rob82many Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 27	Sat 12/15/07 12:03 PM
I am a one woman guy too

Swimforrealsgirl Joined Thu 05/03/07 Posts: 399	Sat 12/15/07 12:05 PM
mY MOM always told me to play the field.....Im wondering if she meant the entire football team!!! Cute.

Swimforrealsgirl Joined Thu 05/03/07 Posts: 399	Sat 12/15/07 12:06 PM
I am a one woman guy too ANOTHER RARE BREED....

mgilligan Joined Wed 12/12/07 Posts: 63	Sat 12/15/07 12:08 PM
I would also like to clarify just a little from the multiple post I have seen about guys being a "one woman guy" I consider myself a one woman man myself and have never cheated on anyone. I was just saying that if you go on one date with someone there is no commitment at that point, there should be nothign stopping you from taking someone else out later. Once you start seeing someone and things get a little more serious then talk about commitment and never stray. They key thing is sometimes its hard to meet the right person and if you go on one date and refuse to see anyone else until that one "ends" you could be missing out on oppertunities.

Swimforrealsgirl Joined Thu 05/03/07 Posts: 399	Sat 12/15/07 12:09 PM
Not all guys do it at all. Thats why I think so many people cheat is because they think everyone else does. Just bs. That's true. I wouldn't cheat. I'D LET EACH GUY KNOW i'M KEEPING MY OPTIONS OPEN.....heh heh...

Swimforrealsgirl Joined Thu 05/03/07 Posts: 399	Sat 12/15/07 12:14 PM
Not all guys do it at all. Thats why I think so many people cheat is because they think everyone else does. Just bs. IT'S NOT CHEATING if you tell the other person YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY ONE IN MY LIFE.....now, if he makes an overture to commit to a RELATIONSHIP.....THEN that is the second part of the story...

Swimforrealsgirl Joined Thu 05/03/07 Posts: 399	Sat 12/15/07 12:15 PM
mY MOM always told me to play the field.....Im wondering if she meant the entire football team!!!

mbcasey Joined Wed 02/14/07 Posts: 1805	Sat 12/15/07 12:28 PM
One woman is enough for me...I can hardly handle one...could I date a .82 woman?

blancalatina Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 655	Sat 12/15/07 12:42 PM
I feel I'm at my best in a 1 on 1 relationship. Lately, I've wondered what it would be like to just DATE 3 OR MORE GUYS A WEEK. Absolutely no commitment, assurance, fidelity, promises, not even the promise of sex, UNLESS HE'S REALLY HOT. Ladies, what do you think? Been there, done that. Ok, still doing that....sucks. I never though you could honestly care or love two men at the same time....damn this isn't good.

rara777 Joined Thu 10/18/07 Posts: 61408	Sat 12/15/07 12:50 PM
go for it guys do it I dont. I'm a one woman man. Always have been. You're 1 in a MILLION. It seems guys I talk to lately want to play with their _____________, phone sex and GO NOWHERE...That's why I'm re-thinking my options....DATE 3 AT A TIME...OR MORE... I'm sure there are more like me... I`m a one woman guy also........24 years of marriage proved this I miss my wife more and more everyday. But I know that someday, I will get to see her again.