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Topic: Is this worth it?
CI1180's photo
Fri 12/14/07 04:19 PM
A friend of mine met a girl on Yahoo! Personals that lives about an hour away from him. The girl suggested to go out of state for the date (to a mall). There was a bad ice storm that night so he had to drive over three hours back to his house in ice. I am just wondering, is it worth it?

s1owhand's photo
Fri 12/14/07 04:21 PM
well it depends. how good was the date?

CI1180's photo
Fri 12/14/07 04:21 PM
He told me it was bad.

azrae1l's photo
Fri 12/14/07 04:21 PM
he shoulda stayed there and no matter how the date was it woulda gotten better.

CaRisLOVE's photo
Fri 12/14/07 04:22 PM

A friend of mine met a girl on Yahoo! Personals that lives about an hour away from him. The girl suggested to go out of state for the date (to a mall). There was a bad ice storm that night so he had to drive over three hours back to his house in ice. I am just wondering, is it worth it?


depends on if he gets some other than dat
im sick of girls making guys do things sometimes especially when its a bad day

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Fri 12/14/07 04:24 PM
I don't know, what would YOU do to find that special someone? Everyone knows you have to go through a couple bad "eggs" to get to the good one, or however that saying goes!

nurjoyce's photo
Fri 12/14/07 04:26 PM
she would have understood if he said let's make it another night there is a bad storm coming-- i would have.
CarisLOVE-- girls go through the same things guys do!!

CI1180's photo
Fri 12/14/07 04:26 PM
If I knew what the weather was, I would not go. I actually told him not to go since she was taking him three hours away. Some place local would have been better (I told him that, I guess she had other ideas).

s1owhand's photo
Fri 12/14/07 04:27 PM
i only go on good dates. it it is going to be bad, i just don't go! laugh

canubetheone's photo
Fri 12/14/07 04:28 PM
Speaking of dates ummm joyce how it go the other night :smile: :smile:

CI1180's photo
Fri 12/14/07 04:29 PM
S1owhand, how would YOU know if it is bad? happy

honestywinsme's photo
Fri 12/14/07 04:49 PM
I think thier is something up with this girl. She is hiding something. To want to travell out of state to met when they both live in same state. Your friend needs to take a step back and think about this one.

CI1180's photo
Fri 12/14/07 09:39 PM
He aint thinking. I think he has a second date with her.

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Fri 12/14/07 09:49 PM
woulda been worth it if he stayed up there and they cuddled their way through the storm...

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Fri 12/14/07 09:51 PM

I think thier is something up with this girl. She is hiding something. To want to travell out of state to met when they both live in same state. Your friend needs to take a step back and think about this one.


this is a good point. maybe her hubby works at the mall close by? who goes to malls on dates anyway?

Jess642's photo
Fri 12/14/07 10:43 PM
Says who? A safe and public place, for a first meet and greet, immediately means she is hiding something?


Great, yep, I can see you all recommending your little sister invites some guy, she's never met before, to her house...grumble grumble grumble

Think about it, before you type...


Because all you do is show your own suspicious mind, and what you would do, if trying to hide something.

CI1180's photo
Fri 12/14/07 10:45 PM
I went to the mall to just walk around with someone. Then we ended up becoming bf/gf. Then it went horribly wrong :tongue: . It was her fault.

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Fri 12/14/07 10:50 PM

Says who? A safe and public place, for a first meet and greet, immediately means she is hiding something?


Great, yep, I can see you all recommending your little sister invites some guy, she's never met before, to her house...grumble grumble grumble

Think about it, before you type...


Because all you do is show your own suspicious mind, and what you would do, if trying to hide something.



i think it was the interstate travel that was more suspicious than anything else. I don't have a little sister, but I think there might be options other than 'a mall 3 hours away' and 'her house' maybe I'm just not thinking. I'm sure you'll let me know.

Jess642's photo
Fri 12/14/07 10:53 PM
Truth of the matter was, the 'friend' agreed to the date.... and is now crying foul?

Hello?

Was there a gun to his head when he agreed to a date at a mall, in the next state, three hours from his home?

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Fri 12/14/07 10:55 PM
naw, that's true. I guess being suspicious on a first date pretty much guarantees failure. maybe that mall had a really good starbucks or something.

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