Why is it always difficult for Black to build relationships with white people? Are we not both human...?

Please, only people with real profit should reply me, I don't need fake people's reply please. Thank you in advance

Gee I don't know.

I've been looking for a black woman, preferably a Masai, but a Zulu would do also, for ages now. But I get no replies.

I don't know where you live but here in Canada, it's not an issue. We don't choose our friends or mates according to colour.

says the profile with the fake location in it.

i have real profit most days
and if you are having that trouble then the problem is with you not the peeps you are trying to build relationships with

I don't understand what you mean by people with real profit. Anyway, you cannot prevent any member from replying on your thread.

I believe, the gentleman with the dead president's name,
and Bea Arthur's shirt, is looking for someone with an
income.

ok then. thanks Rock

I believe the dead president from the unreal location meant "real profiles" not "profits".

thanks mo, that makes sense too

come to montreal, girl are crazy for black profit here :)

Does is matter??

It does depend on where you happen to live. Which country, and which area in which country.

It also seems to be affected by generations, and by politics of the times.

When I was young, black-white relationships were just getting started in the US, especially in the area I was in (Virginia). There were LOTS of problems due to the previous years of both forced and selected segregation. There were lots of very large cultural differences that coincided with each race, including everything from how people dressed, to how they wore their hair, even to the ability to understand each other's slang.

By now, most things are better, because at least SOME of the direct racial antagonism is behind us by a generation or two, but there are still lingering suspicions. The latest "adventures" of some of our national leadership may have made things worse again.

But more than anything else, as long as people THINK of themselves and others as being of a different "race," things are going to be difficult.

By the way, from what I've seen, there is a LOT more than just black-white stuff going on. EVERY possible subgroup seems to have their own particular set of worries, prejudices and so on.

Oh, and one more thing to look at MOST closely, is how each persons EXPECTATIONS about each other affect things. This is where the less obvious racial/cultural prejudices have an effect. Lots of people fail to get along well enough to pair up, because they have a host of smaller expectations about things like how fast to answer questions, what kind of activities to offer to share, what kind of things to say might sound "romantic," and so on. So you might ponder and make some observations about that. Perhaps the way you've been approaching members of groups other than your own, has been triggering negative reactions that you are oblivious to having caused.

No and Michael Jackson will back me up on that !

Where are u from

In my opinion, when it's "difficult for Black to build relationships with white people" it's due to cultural barriers and miscommunication.


So are men and women.
Yet if you click on the "online now" section of a dating site, you'll find thousands to millions of people finding it difficult to build relationships with others.

The only thing "being human" really facilitates is the need for relationships, not really in the "building" of them.
I mean look at how many people that can't find a date have pets.
Easier to build a relationship with something not human than human.

Is it always difficult? I think not.

Why cant people live in perfect harmony on pianos?

I love black women

hello