Hello.I am a 65 year old American man Retired and Live in the Philippines..
My deceased wife of 16 years was from her ....My lord have the GIRLS changed here,,,I have lived here 10 years but been going here over 30 years so I know the Honest and Real Lifestyle,,, Customs and Traditions here.... I blame most of the change in girls / ladies on the Tourist PLAYBOYS and USER'S ... They go here at age 30 plus and use the girls a toys for sexual enjoyment then promise them a VISA that never gets processed,,
Most the girls end up with a child or children and NO FATHER that will support them from these jerks...
It sure makes it had to find a Real and decent girl here,, They all seem to think your only after sex and fun,,,,
I wish the females here would learn to get the guys PASSPORT INFORMATION... So if something happens to here in this way she has a means to TRACK THIS IDIOT DOWN in his embassy and file for support for the child / children...
I know that curbs a lot of the guys I have seen it...as soon as my 20 year old neighbor asked for a copy of his DATA PAGE he left..VERY GOOD DEAL,,,

oh is this dissing the Philippines and Filipino women forum?
So your wife died and you cannot find anyone who would be willing to be your caretaker, leave. Go back to the U S of A.

You are not a Filipino, this is not your problem.

i must have read it wrong

i read his starting by just filling in / starting the story
bring us the reader in to his settings on things
age where he is from and how long been over there and mentions his deceased wife of 16 years
(sorry for your loss, that has to be insainly hard)

i read it as tourist's taking advantage of others : (
and how the impacts on that , have made it hard for them to trust others (understandably)


he wishes the females would grab the guys passport info , so when the idoit guy leaves them prego they have a way to track them down (i dont see him dissing the females ... he does not call them dumb , we deal with scammers all day , think about how easy it is to fall pray with out knowing ... is my take on it at least)

i myself know how easy it is to fall hard for a lady , to later find out it was a game, that i was just fill in for her down time ...(thanks last g.f. , i do hope the guy ya married is the one for you , was some good years though)

thats understandable , cause if ya dont have a way to track them down , that means they are solo on it , and baby or baby's cost's way to much for a couple , let alone solo , dna results only work if they have a dna record to search for and thats not even including the cost of the dna test

so then they are left broken hearted with more expenses then they had before

we got candy get in the van....

to me he wasnt dissing , the ladys where sold broken promisses and broken dreams

i could hear where he is coming from , i think he is saying females, cause guys dont end up pregnant ... with a guy its then just a broken promise well maybe an std
<shrug>

but a female prego from a broken promise is heart breaking and just wrong on so many levels
not to mention the kids .... uhg so hard on the moms , what would ya tell the child : (

not sure about the data page part , it went over my head
but sounds like trust issues (hurts both sides)

but i am blond
<shrug>

As I said, this is not his problem.

you see a person slip a drug in to some ones drink
but hey you dont say anything
cause its not your problem

The "neighbor" quote is loosely based on the many variations of the famous poem attributed to Martin Niemöller:

When the Nazis came for the communists,
I remained silent;
I was not a communist..

When they locked up the social democrats,
I remained silent;
I was not a social democrat.

When they came for the trade unionists,
I did not speak out;
I was not a trade unionist.

When they came for the Jews,
I didn't speak up,
because I wasn't a Jew.

When they came for me,
there was no-one left
to speak out.


but hey no worry cause its not his problem right ?

As I said, this is not his problem.

taamaaah! korak ka po jaan te,galing sumagot ni ate im amaze!!!!

just ignore coz "Arguing with a fool only prove that there are 2"

I'm a forginer. I understand the relationship. She likes the money and doesn't rip me off
We both go away happy. What's the big deal, we are both over 18 and understand the rules.