Would you prefer personality or appearance?
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Well the two aren't mutually exclusive. But all things considered it would have to be loyalty.
Inner beauty over the pretty and all that.
But then I'm old and wizened. :)
And yes I meant wizened.. like an old apple.

I've never boned a personality .

But you have an appearance? Paranormal activity between the sheets???

Personality does not equal loyal and appearance does not equal pretty.

I think in general people would like someone they feel attracted to which is a combination of inner and outer beauty.

If it's just for sex the importance of inner beauty drops significantly, especially for men.

It was a long weekend, the gf stayed home.
What happens in Cabo, stays in Cabo.

Topic: Do u like it more if the girl is pretty or loyal?

Neither... I prefer men

me too, River!

Yes

me three, River

i don't know crystal lack of inner beauty is a sure fire way of turning wilie into a scared turtle

I don't really compare the two or would even know where to begin in order to weigh them against each other.
It's not really an issue until disloyalty or repulsion are a factor.

I don't believe I've ever dated anyone and thought "hmmm, well, they aren't as pretty as I thought they were/could be...buuuuut, they're a little more loyal than I thought they were going to be."

And loyal to what? Just that they have loyalty to something? Loyal to me? Loyal to our relationship? Loyal to herself?


Both?
I would prefer the personality match the appearance and live up to my inherent bias an expectations?

...That's what I would "prefer," but I have yet to encounter a department store with two bins full of women. One bin has all "pretty" ones, and the other all have "personality" ones and I have to make that kind of choice.


You mean read?
Can't really hear much from reading.
...Unless I drink the "special" tea.


I found this amusing:

For a lot of guys, if it's just for sex, the importance of outer beauty drops significantly as well. Especially if there are beer goggles involved.

Other than that, for a lot of guys, if it's for a relationship, especially if they're online, lonely, and/or desperate, the importance of outer beauty drops significantly as well.
Or maybe it would be more accurate to say the importance of outer beauty doesn't drop, so much as the lack of it is overcompensatingly complemented. i.e. telling women what is thought they want to hear regarding their "beauty" and "strength" and "intelligence" and "inner beauty" (which is a meaningless term, at least you can compare standards and golden ratios with external beauty).

Loyalty

A shame we cannot put that to the test. Just think of this.... a beautiful girl, gorgeous body, long legs, firm boobs, shiny long hair and to-die-for lips. Her personality is not to write home about, but she's very willing to get sexercised by you. I am certain almost all men would go for it. The ones who are into one night stands.
Lack of inner beauty doesn't necessarily mean "nasty". Can also be no self-confidence, an airhead and so on. Things that I doubt would turn any man's wilie into a scared turtle, hihi.

We don't see the 'spits or swallows' topic,
near as often as the current topic.

It all depends on what the person is after if its just sex then no one cares how nice you are not going to see em after but if it is from more than a night or so then really I know me personally would rather have someone who isn't a super model and knows how to have a good time and can laugh cause there I nothing worse than someone who just never laughs or smiles