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I have found someone I am really fond of. However he lives FAR away. I want to talk to him get to know him and see where it goes. Iam a huge fan of a Travis Tritt song (drift off to dreams)that says "you might be hundreds or more miles away." and I feel like that has been the song of my life. I have never been 1 to settle for a relationship just becasue the man is there. I want happiness. Do you have any advice and has anyone had luck with a LDR?
please let me know! Hope to hear from you all!! Thanks! Amalie |
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of course they can..i am currently in a LDR myself..granted my sweetie only lives about 2 and a half hours away from me, but we make it work. we always make sure to make time for each other, with phone calls, IM's and e-mail daily. Make sure that you focus on communication...LDR's are doable, but keeping a constant line of communication is very important. Best of luck to you. I hope it all works out for you.
Becca 
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i see nothing wrong with it, but i wouldn't go start a "relationship" with somebody unless there was a possibility of moving a lot closer pretty soon.
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None of mine ever worked out, but there were other factors involved. I wish you good luck.
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hmmm, good luck with that... ive had such hard times just staying in contact with friends once they move. but ive seen it happen, i have a friend right now who is doing it... she says lots of phone sex
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thanks Becca
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however! he lives out of the states. he says he is willing to come here and I am more than willing to go there(when the weather clears up..lol) we talk. he emails and chat back and forth all day. I just know I am going to get foolish girl looks and talked about but I just want happiness... right! |
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i see nothing wrong with it, but i wouldn't go start a "relationship" with somebody unless there was a possibility of moving a lot closer pretty soon. i agree about the moving closer thing. that is one of the things my sweetie and i have been discussing here recently. being closer together is something we both really want. Becca |
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I have found someone I am really fond of. However he lives FAR away. I want to talk to him get to know him and see where it goes. Iam a huge fan of a Travis Tritt song (drift off to dreams)that says "you might be hundreds or more miles away." and I feel like that has been the song of my life. I have never been 1 to settle for a relationship just becasue the man is there. I want happiness. Do you have any advice and has anyone had luck with a LDR? please let me know! Hope to hear from you all!! Thanks! Amalie Omg, I love the p.s. on your profile! |
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when the time is right 1 of us will make a move.... if it gets that far..infact he has already mentioned it.
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Hi!
Just like to say that I live in England and have just become a member here and hoping to meet someone, In todays World and todays transport we are all close to each other, I have a friend who sometime back married a lady from New York, wrote for about 8 months had two meetings and now living in England ! 
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Tried it a few times, it never worked, wouldn't do it again.
"Out of sight, out of mind." It's true, they were all out of their minds. |
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I have found someone I am really fond of. However he lives FAR away. I want to talk to him get to know him and see where it goes. Iam a huge fan of a Travis Tritt song (drift off to dreams)that says "you might be hundreds or more miles away." and I feel like that has been the song of my life. I have never been 1 to settle for a relationship just becasue the man is there. I want happiness. Do you have any advice and has anyone had luck with a LDR? please let me know! Hope to hear from you all!! Thanks! Amalie In my opinion if both people are happy in a long distance relationship it has it's chances of working out. Ive always thought, why should I limit myself to the women that live in the same place I do. To me, my soul mate could very well be in a place ive never thought existed or that ive never heard of. Sometimes you gotta take risks. I did and she crushed me but im still searching in other places other than the town i live in. Also distance makes the heart grow fonder so if there are times you visit it'll be new and exciting everytime. Hope this helps. |
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I have found someone I am really fond of. However he lives FAR away. I want to talk to him get to know him and see where it goes. Iam a huge fan of a Travis Tritt song (drift off to dreams)that says "you might be hundreds or more miles away." and I feel like that has been the song of my life. I have never been 1 to settle for a relationship just becasue the man is there. I want happiness. Do you have any advice and has anyone had luck with a LDR? please let me know! Hope to hear from you all!! Thanks! Amalie Omg, I love the p.s. on your profile! you gotta say something..you know..they see you work and have your life together..they wanna jump on that band wagon!! sorry.. just got to let them know... 
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Edited by
Hadeeya
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Thu 12/13/07 01:52 PM
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I have found someone I am really fond of. However he lives FAR away. I want to talk to him get to know him and see where it goes. Iam a huge fan of a Travis Tritt song (drift off to dreams)that says "you might be hundreds or more miles away." and I feel like that has been the song of my life. I have never been 1 to settle for a relationship just becasue the man is there. I want happiness. Do you have any advice and has anyone had luck with a LDR? [unquote] Here is another glutton for punishment! I too have a crush on someone that lives hundreds of miles away.  If neither one of us is ever going to move, what's the point  Guess we'll remain internet friends  You can never have to many friends!! Especially on the internet. 
Great and wonderful luck to you!! I hope it works out for you, and you'll end up in each others arms in the same town in the same house!! |
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Honestly, long distance relationships tend not to work out. Being apart causes too much stress on the relationship. I've done it and although we were together for almost two years (and are still best friends), the day-in and day-out stuff that a couple experiences when they are closer in distance, is missing and can't/couldn't be replicated by telephone and email.
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youtube.com/watch?v=L2WSiu0V0Lw
check this out..... this is my song and the reason I know everything will be ok! thanks guys! I pray you allas well as myself find the happiness you deserve! |
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Edited by
stylishdotcom
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Thu 12/13/07 01:57 PM
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Take it from soemone who tried to keep her marraige alive long distance...it does not work...and on the Internet....oh please, save yourself a heartache and dont fall for the patter......
How far away does this guy live...you say out of the states...where? Canada, Australia, Europe? |
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Well, you never know, it could work. The world is full of possibilities. It depends on what you both want and what you're willing to do to get it.
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I have found someone I am really fond of. However he lives FAR away. I want to talk to him get to know him and see where it goes. Iam a huge fan of a Travis Tritt song (drift off to dreams)that says "you might be hundreds or more miles away." and I feel like that has been the song of my life. I have never been 1 to settle for a relationship just becasue the man is there. I want happiness. Do you have any advice and has anyone had luck with a LDR? [unquote] Here is another glutton for punishment! I too have a crush on someone that lives hundreds of miles away. If neither one of us is ever going to move, what's the point Guess we'll remain internet friends You can never have to many friends!! Especially on the internet.
Great and wonderful luck to you!! I hope it works out for you, and you'll end up in each others arms in the same town in the same house!!
I just want happiness... who says my happy ending is where my life started. as long as I give it all i have 150% right! just pray that he does the same. Am I a fool to believe God has 1 person for each of us and that he sends them to us when he is ready? perhaps I am. |
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Unfortunately, due to immigration, it is harder for people from other countries to just "move" there unless you get married and with that being said.......it takes alot of $$$$$$$
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