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Topic: A little advice for all.
KinKiniph001's photo
Thu 12/13/07 10:09 AM
Edited by KinKiniph001 on Thu 12/13/07 10:15 AM
Dont settle for the first thing after u just get out of a relationship bc it might just be a short escape of ur fellings.It almost alway's ends up with u going back to the other person or back where u started,And could hurt the other persons feelings.So give yourself time to be sure u are over the othere person.

Others can add other advice if they like.

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nurjoyce's photo
Thu 12/13/07 10:10 AM
nice advice
thank you

jvc534's photo
Thu 12/13/07 10:11 AM
I totally agree with you!

no photo
Thu 12/13/07 10:12 AM
I AGREE 100 %

eskimo_nell's photo
Thu 12/13/07 10:13 AM
ok i won't

no photo
Thu 12/13/07 10:15 AM
:smile: :smile: I agree.Take time.It never hurts anyone that way.:smile:

IconicMemory's photo
Thu 12/13/07 10:16 AM
For me once I am out of a relationship. I take much time off. I feel its not only beneficial for myself but also beneficial for the person I would possibly end up dating in the future.

Also in my belief I feel that people who jump from one relationship to the next have the fear of being alone. Also I think it looks bad for a person to jump from relationship to the next makes the person you dated a week ago, seem unimportant.


eskimo_nell's photo
Thu 12/13/07 10:20 AM

For me once I am out of a relationship. I take much time off. I feel its not only beneficial for myself but also beneficial for the person I would possibly end up dating in the future.

Also in my belief I feel that people who jump from one relationship to the next have the fear of being alone. Also I think it looks bad for a person to jump from relationship to the next makes the person you dated a week ago, seem unimportant.




i agree with that i don't like jumping from one to the other which then gets confused as i'm being to fussy only because my last relationship was nearly 2 years ago, and i don't want to be with just anyone for the sake of being with someone.

KinKiniph001's photo
Thu 12/13/07 10:20 AM
Edited by KinKiniph001 on Thu 12/13/07 10:23 AM
i agree with u iconic. It would turn out benificial for the potential other relationship.

azrae1l's photo
Thu 12/13/07 10:27 AM
i hardly ever wait but with me by the time the physical relationship desolves the emotional one is long since gone.


note: i have never broken up with anybody, so it'snot like i just stop caring and walk away.

IconicMemory's photo
Thu 12/13/07 10:34 AM
I guess perhaps I am old fashion. I have been single since February of this year. The girl I was dating got a boyfriend as soon as I left. It was me that broke up with her. But it wasn't that I disliked her or vice versa.

We are still friends. But her getting man different so soon. Made me think. Gee did she even really care about me.

I remember the day I left like yesterday. We just lived too far apart from one another. A 5 hour drive to see someone one way is a long drive. Which is the reason why I left.

azrae1l's photo
Thu 12/13/07 10:36 AM
if i could find a girl that liked me within a 5 hour drive i would be all over that....... probably only on weekends but damn i would be all over that.

seekinu's photo
Thu 12/13/07 10:38 AM
Good advice...

eskimo_nell's photo
Thu 12/13/07 10:38 AM

I guess perhaps I am old fashion. I have been single since February of this year. The girl I was dating got a boyfriend as soon as I left. It was me that broke up with her. But it wasn't that I disliked her or vice versa.

We are still friends. But her getting man different so soon. Made me think. Gee did she even really care about me.

I remember the day I left like yesterday. We just lived too far apart from one another. A 5 hour drive to see someone one way is a long drive. Which is the reason why I left.


some people find it easier to move on quicker i don't know why.
she probably does care for you but only in a friendship kinda way which made it easier to move on, plus you lived far away.
I don't know all this relationship stuff goes beyond me i'm a novice at this gameohwell

KinKiniph001's photo
Thu 12/13/07 10:43 AM
Dont settle for the first thing after u just get out of a relationship bc it might just be a short escape of ur fellings.

wmyers4u's photo
Thu 12/13/07 10:44 AM
but if you wait too long you'll end up like me:)

TxsGal3333's photo
Thu 12/13/07 10:44 AM
I fully agree with this I have never jumped from one to another but we should all take our due time and think things out before we get someone else into our lives so quickly after breaking up with anotherbigsmile

KinKiniph001's photo
Thu 12/13/07 10:47 AM
wmyers4u there is always someone out there.

no photo
Thu 12/13/07 10:50 AM
I'd have to say Amen to that

KinKiniph001's photo
Thu 12/13/07 10:55 AM
Does anyone else have any good advice?

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