You say this site is Free yet to totally use it we all must upgrade for some things, so you are lying FREE means FREE why does it cost to upgrade for matches, etc. Wake up and don't lye that you are FREE. Thanks, Cliff

For FREE you can read and write messages and see who has looked at your profile, what else do you need?

Just look at who viewed you, chances are they will be the ones who matched, if they're not then chances are they are scammers anyway.

The upgrade is optional, and IMHO not worth it.

sigh...addressed this issue before...

I pay no money...but i also don't have unrealistic expectations that EVERY feature of the site should cost nothing...you are FREE to not select any of those optional features... . Unlike other sites, you can send and receive private messages for free; and anyone interested in you can send you a private message...and profiles can be viewed freely...

however, If you can find a site which offers as much as mingle and even more (at no cost to you), go for it...