Topic: u suck
stevenpwis's photo
Wed 12/12/07 03:46 PM
i found someone, but not on here

icedspice's photo
Wed 12/12/07 03:56 PM
Ihave only been here for a week so i suppose i have to give it a chance !!! x

Gustava's photo
Wed 12/12/07 04:00 PM

Secondly, I think a lot depends on what it is you're looking for. One thing I've noticed about JSH is that most of the people who are "looking," are "looking" for something more along the lines of the mainstream and traditional. I think you've got a much better chance if you fall into that category; whereas someone like myself, who has as much use for "mainstream and traditional" as I have for an electric napkin, is unlikely to find anyone who meets my particular standards.

Yes, this is true. Personally, I don't expect to develop any sort of relationship off of here---I'm far too picky and much too bent---and I'm content to merely engage in forum arguments.

Easyboy's photo
Wed 12/12/07 04:08 PM
made lots of friends and even met a couple...but still sucking single.

nuenjins's photo
Wed 12/12/07 04:15 PM
Edited by nuenjins on Wed 12/12/07 04:18 PM
Mmmm Hhmmmflowerforyou


Gustav has lost hope. That is a terrible thing to settle.

Dragoness's photo
Wed 12/12/07 04:22 PM

I think there are a couple of things that have an impact here.

First of all, a guy who has been here for a week, and who has made a grand total of 39 posts, probably isn't going to have the ladies flocking all over him. Particularly when most of those 39 posts are of the whiny "u suck" variety. Give it some time and put some effort into it; this isn't "ImmediateGratification.com." People need to get to know you before they feel comfortable contacting you, and the way to get known is by becoming a presence in the forums.

Secondly, I think a lot depends on what it is you're looking for. One thing I've noticed about JSH is that most of the people who are "looking," are "looking" for something more along the lines of the mainstream and traditional. I think you've got a much better chance if you fall into that category; whereas someone like myself, who has as much use for "mainstream and traditional" as I have for an electric napkin, is unlikely to find anyone who meets my particular standards.



noway noway noway you mean the dish of my dreams will not be handed to me on a silver platter with garnishes of wealth, power and a side of charisma!!!!!!!huh Then I am leaving, no way, I will continue this this this whatever it is in vain!!!!!! J/K I love it here. I am hopelessly addicted and I have made friends that means more to me than just dating. Dating is a hit and miss type thing but friends are foreverflowerforyou

Gustava's photo
Wed 12/12/07 04:23 PM

Mmmm Hhmmmflowerforyou


Gustava has lost hope. That is a terrible thing to settle.

No, haven't lost hope. I just think I'm more likely to meet someone off-line (which I much prefer). I don't like emailing and chatting and all of that other online dating stuff. Give me a short, dark-haired, thin, gorgeous, slightly punk man in a bar any day over a photograph on a website....

musclehd's photo
Wed 12/12/07 04:25 PM


Mmmm Hhmmmflowerforyou


Gustava has lost hope. That is a terrible thing to settle.

No, haven't lost hope. I just think I'm more likely to meet someone off-line (which I much prefer). I don't like emailing and chatting and all of that other online dating stuff. Give me a short, dark-haired, thin, gorgeous, slightly punk man in a bar any day over a photograph on a website....



def agree with meeting someone offline..

i like the site cuz it easy to pass time, and met some interestin people here.

awiserman's photo
Wed 12/12/07 04:39 PM
still looking but havent been on much

SBKORNDOGG's photo
Wed 12/12/07 04:42 PM
C'mon now...Does it really suck that bad to be single? Better to be single than w/ some fruitcake nutjob,I say.

bgeorge's photo
Wed 12/12/07 04:43 PM
to suck??? or to date???

bgeorge's photo
Wed 12/12/07 04:43 PM

C'mon now...Does it really suck that bad to be single? Better to be single than w/ some fruitcake nutjob,I say.


absolutely...and being alone does not equal being lonely

SBKORNDOGG's photo
Wed 12/12/07 04:49 PM
I agree. As with nearly anything, there's good and bad. I'd rather wait awhile, than be w/ someone that makes me miserable.

Gustava's photo
Wed 12/12/07 04:56 PM
I hate being single but not for some quixotic need.

no photo
Wed 12/12/07 05:00 PM

C'mon now...Does it really suck that bad to be single? Better to be single than w/ some fruitcake nutjob,I say.


Absolutely true. I learned this the hard way, about 100 times.

azrae1l's photo
Wed 12/12/07 05:31 PM
never met anybody off here and probably never will. girls around here wont give you the time of day if your not loaded and look like a model and since i refuse to let anybody know just howmuch money i have or what i do for a living that rules that out. and since i look more like something from a horror movie and not g-q welp i guess you can figure out where i stand with the locals....

Gustava's photo
Wed 12/12/07 05:57 PM

never met anybody off here and probably never will. girls around here wont give you the time of day if your not loaded and look like a model...

I don't believe the "loaded" thing. Most women can take care of themselves financially. Anyway, how does one tell online whether or not someone has money?

e69's photo
Wed 12/12/07 10:51 PM
I am single. I do not suck.:tongue:

KingPayne's photo
Wed 12/12/07 11:24 PM
i was talking to someone, but her account got deleted. ehh, who knows, life goes on.

Thema's photo
Thu 12/13/07 02:24 AM
I think my match got hit by a truck laugh