Topic: Deception
island769's photo
Sun 06/09/19 11:49 AM
I get lots of replies to my profile, I get excited just to find out the users account has been deactivated, I'm sick of my heart being yanked out of my chest, when is a real single ladie going to message me?

delightfulillusion's photo
Sun 06/09/19 11:54 AM
I'd just be thankful they were scammered before I got into a conversation with them.

The site has no control over who messages you. If you wish to limit who can send you mail, then I'd suggest you set your mail preferences. It may cut down on unwanted messages. Here is the link http://cpn.mingle2.com/inbox/filters

Di
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Sun 06/09/19 12:24 PM
Yeah, if they are deactivated that fast, they weren't real. You didn't notice a similarity in all of the contacts? They really stick out. Stay local, and if you are in an area where there aren't many profiles, go out a bit farther. Plenty of women I have talked to either give me a different city than is in their profile, or if they do know the city they are allegedly from, they don't know anything about it or current events happening there, lol. Keep your head up, and most importantly, keep it focused...!

maybwecan's photo
Sun 06/09/19 12:59 PM

Yeah, if they are deactivated that fast, they weren't real. You didn't notice a similarity in all of the contacts? They really stick out. Stay local, and if you are in an area where there aren't many profiles, go out a bit farther. Plenty of women I have talked to either give me a different city than is in their profile, or if they do know the city they are allegedly from, they don't know anything about it or current events happening there, lol. Keep your head up, and most importantly, keep it focused...!


Nick's comments are on target...

Use the Mingle search and find potential matches which meet your criteria...then send messages...worth a shot...

dfarmer's photo
Sun 06/09/19 01:29 PM
Why their profiles are so quickly deactivated! Word of advice, don't get excited over views, nudges or emails. Also learn how to use reverse image search!!! Shows who is truly real or which ones are fake most the time!