Topic: love
venkat's photo
Wed 05/15/19 12:11 PM
is love marriage best or arrange marriage best

Larsi666 😽's photo
Wed 05/15/19 12:12 PM
Not getting married at all. A decent relationship doesn't need a certificate. JMO

Highflyer88's photo
Wed 05/15/19 12:15 PM
Anyone that rocks your boat!

Alex's photo
Wed 05/15/19 12:19 PM
Love without marriage is best. #Newflow

Riverspirit1111's photo
Wed 05/15/19 12:21 PM

is love marriage best or arrange marriage best


Love.... with arranged marriages there's no telling if you have chemistry until it's too late.

Freebird Deluxe's photo
Wed 05/15/19 01:12 PM
Edited by Freebird Deluxe on Wed 05/15/19 01:14 PM
A bad question for the western world,but in other parts of the world it is often the way ,sometimes with first cousins resulting in many birth defects, lots of girls are forced into marriages they don't want and can come to harm because of Honour of the family.
So I would say it is not a good thing.

Imagine someone on here arranging all the dates , crazy

Riverspirit1111's photo
Wed 05/15/19 01:19 PM
Edited by Riverspirit1111 on Wed 05/15/19 01:35 PM



Imagine someone on here arranging all the dates , crazy


I wouldn't mind if someone arranged a date for me... some activity is better than nothing laugh blushing

Oh... Someone around 5'10", average body, dark blonde or brown hair, works or is retired, and loves to be outside, and knows how to give a massage bigsmile


Freebird Deluxe's photo
Wed 05/15/19 01:47 PM




Imagine someone on here arranging all the dates , crazy


I wouldn't mind if someone arranged a date for me... some activity is better than nothing laugh blushing

Oh... Someone around 5'10", average body, dark blonde or brown hair, works or is retired, and loves to be outside, and knows how to give a massage bigsmile




Donald Trump it is then!!!
see how it can go wrong
rofl

Riverspirit1111's photo
Wed 05/15/19 01:49 PM





Imagine someone on here arranging all the dates , crazy


I wouldn't mind if someone arranged a date for me... some activity is better than nothing laugh blushing

Oh... Someone around 5'10", average body, dark blonde or brown hair, works or is retired, and loves to be outside, and knows how to give a massage bigsmile




Donald Trump it is then!!!
see how it can go wrong
rofl


slaphead rofl

tongue2

mzrosie's photo
Wed 05/15/19 02:44 PM
Hi venkat
My mother had an arranged marriage, they were married for 45 years until my father died.
All my siblings and I married for love, they all worked until death did us part.
As Ben Afflect said "Marriage is hard work." and Jennifer Garner (his wife at that
time) finally divorced the dude.

.. so I say, each one can work. tis up to you to make it work.

Welcome to Mingle2
and good luck in your search
happy waving



Riverspirit1111's photo
Wed 05/15/19 02:49 PM

Hi venkat
My mother had an arranged marriage, they were married for 45 years until my father died.
All my siblings and I married for love, they all worked until death did us part.
As Ben Afflect said "Marriage is hard work." and Jennifer Garner (his wife at that
time) finally divorced the dude.

.. so I say, each one can work. tis up to you to make it work.

Welcome to Mingle2
and good luck in your search
happy waving





That's really cool about your parents rosie. I do believe that they can work if both are committed to making it work.

Reminds me of Fiddler on The Roof... The parents had an arranged marriage and eventually fell in love with each other. I love that movie. happy

no photo
Wed 05/15/19 03:14 PM
Both can work and be happy. I know about the marriage traditions in India. I have seen in also in the family of my husband from Pakistan. All marriages were arranged and they are very happy. Only my husband and I did love marriage (on the fourth day). Oh, I love and I miss that loving family.
In India are still missing 50 Million women. Means, it is not easy to find one. Anyway, if one or the other way, I believe it will become real love, for you are willing to make her your everything. God bless you. Namastei

mzrosie's photo
Wed 05/15/19 03:30 PM


Hi venkat
My mother had an arranged marriage, they were married for 45 years until my father died.
All my siblings and I married for love, they all worked until death did us part.
As Ben Afflect said "Marriage is hard work." and Jennifer Garner (his wife at that
time) finally divorced the dude.

.. so I say, each one can work. tis up to you to make it work.

Welcome to Mingle2
and good luck in your search
happy waving





That's really cool about your parents rosie. I do believe that they can work if both are committed to making it work.

Reminds me of Fiddler on The Roof... The parents had an arranged marriage and eventually fell in love with each other. I love that movie. happy


My mother's mother died when she was 4. The second wife did not want to care for
her and her three brothers so the brothers were sent to the grandmother and my
mother was sent to her very strict uncle to raise. The uncle chose who she would
marry, not the love of her life. Kinda sad for my mother really.

I also like Fiddler on the Roof. One of those movies I can watch again and again.
flowerforyou drinker

Riverspirit1111's photo
Wed 05/15/19 03:34 PM


My mother's mother died when she was 4. The second wife did not want to care for
her and her three brothers so the brothers were sent to the grandmother and my
mother was sent to her very strict uncle to raise. The uncle chose who she would
marry, not the love of her life. Kinda sad for my mother really.

I also like Fiddler on the Roof. One of those movies I can watch again and again.
flowerforyou drinker


Oh that is sad, sorry to hear that rosie flowerforyou

I know it works for some, but for me I prefer love. love

Yes, I'd watch that one over and over again too!

mzrosie's photo
Wed 05/15/19 03:58 PM



My mother's mother died when she was 4. The second wife did not want to care for
her and her three brothers so the brothers were sent to the grandmother and my
mother was sent to her very strict uncle to raise. The uncle chose who she would
marry, not the love of her life. Kinda sad for my mother really.

I also like Fiddler on the Roof. One of those movies I can watch again and again.
flowerforyou drinker


Oh that is sad, sorry to hear that rosie flowerforyou

I know it works for some, but for me I prefer love. love

Yes, I'd watch that one over and over again too!


Yes river, it was sad for my mother but like the movie Fiddle on the Roof, she learned
to love my father. Good thing they married otherwise I and my siblings would not
have been born, right? But if my mother married the hot dude she was in love with,
I could have been more adorable haha

drinker drinker

Riverspirit1111's photo
Wed 05/15/19 04:08 PM




My mother's mother died when she was 4. The second wife did not want to care for
her and her three brothers so the brothers were sent to the grandmother and my
mother was sent to her very strict uncle to raise. The uncle chose who she would
marry, not the love of her life. Kinda sad for my mother really.

I also like Fiddler on the Roof. One of those movies I can watch again and again.
flowerforyou drinker


Oh that is sad, sorry to hear that rosie flowerforyou

I know it works for some, but for me I prefer love. love

Yes, I'd watch that one over and over again too!


Yes river, it was sad for my mother but like the movie Fiddle on the Roof, she learned
to love my father. Good thing they married otherwise I and my siblings would not
have been born, right? But if my mother married the hot dude she was in love with,
I could have been more adorable haha

drinker drinker


laugh You couldn't be more adorable than you are now rosie!

And yes, it's a good thing she married your father... the world wouldn't be the same if you hadn't been born. flowerforyou

mzrosie's photo
Wed 05/15/19 04:14 PM





My mother's mother died when she was 4. The second wife did not want to care for
her and her three brothers so the brothers were sent to the grandmother and my
mother was sent to her very strict uncle to raise. The uncle chose who she would
marry, not the love of her life. Kinda sad for my mother really.

I also like Fiddler on the Roof. One of those movies I can watch again and again.
flowerforyou drinker


Oh that is sad, sorry to hear that rosie flowerforyou

I know it works for some, but for me I prefer love. love

Yes, I'd watch that one over and over again too!


Yes river, it was sad for my mother but like the movie Fiddle on the Roof, she learned
to love my father. Good thing they married otherwise I and my siblings would not
have been born, right? But if my mother married the hot dude she was in love with,
I could have been more adorable haha

drinker drinker


laugh You couldn't be more adorable than you are now rosie!

And yes, it's a good thing she married your father... the world wouldn't be the same if you hadn't been born. flowerforyou


awwww River you are the bestest flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou :heart:

Riverspirit1111's photo
Wed 05/15/19 04:20 PM
:heart: flowerforyou

Rosalin's photo
Fri 05/17/19 12:47 PM
that's true