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Topic: question for the guys
Lori_Renee's photo
Tue 12/11/07 09:54 AM
I'm new to this site and have not done much dating in a long time...

What is a good way for a woman to approach a man to let them know she is interested and in a way that will grab his attention without the woman appearing too eager, desperate or slutty.

Thanks,

jvc534's photo
Tue 12/11/07 09:55 AM
Just introduce yourself a little. That is probably the best way to do it.

adj4u's photo
Tue 12/11/07 09:56 AM
well the last for words left out my suggestion


:wink: :wink: :wink:

laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

welcome

good luck with your hunting

rickj28's photo
Tue 12/11/07 09:58 AM
Just let them know you are interested in getting to know them and see if they feel the same!!

ted1963's photo
Tue 12/11/07 09:58 AM
Introduce yourself, send alot of friendly emails, answer your emails, post in the forums...

duckiegiggles's photo
Tue 12/11/07 09:58 AM
my friend shell pulled a good one the other night at the bar for me
i told her the guy i was looking at all night was cute so she called him over and asked to his hand ..he showed her his right one then asked to see his other hand ..saw there was no ring and goes " so have you meant my friend michelle tonight"
we talked alittle more no connection but it still was a slick move

beachwithyou's photo
Tue 12/11/07 09:59 AM
Send a nice message...sometimes just a quick hello can get the ball rolling...AND RESPOND to the guys that email you...profiles are only a snapshot. Don't be afraid to talk and email to get to know them...but don't drag the emailing out too long..the idea is to meet people..not be serial chatters

s1owhand's photo
Tue 12/11/07 10:00 AM
welcome to jsh
excellent first post

flowerforyou

ted1963's photo
Tue 12/11/07 10:00 AM
Edited by ted1963 on Tue 12/11/07 10:01 AM
And get rid of the email filter that limits emails over 100 miles away....lol and maybe the age liits too...

dcrdnk's photo
Tue 12/11/07 10:01 AM
I've been aproached many different ways, but the one that always gets my attention is when they pull my hair. laugh laugh glasses

Jill298's photo
Tue 12/11/07 10:02 AM

I'm new to this site and have not done much dating in a long time...

What is a good way for a woman to approach a man to let them know she is interested and in a way that will grab his attention without the woman appearing too eager, desperate or slutty.

Thanks,
Just be yourself... that way you attract someone that likes you for you. Don't be so nervous about it :)

dizzydean5's photo
Tue 12/11/07 10:02 AM
yo i was going to seen you a email but im block so i have to do it this way frist of all just say hi secound there is nothing wrong with a woman hitting on a man and 3rd go slow dont be in such a hurry you are new and it takes time pluse i am the jurk in the crowed so be where of me lmao

JazzieJoHanna's photo
Tue 12/11/07 10:03 AM

I'm new to this site and have not done much dating in a long time...

What is a good way for a woman to approach a man to let them know she is interested and in a way that will grab his attention without the woman appearing too eager, desperate or slutty.

Thanks,
[i KNOW YOU SAID GUYS ONLY BUT i WANTED TO SAY HI AND I WAS CURIOUS, POINTER BE HONEST- /quote]

Lori_Renee's photo
Tue 12/11/07 10:04 AM
good one (LOL)

no photo
Tue 12/11/07 10:04 AM
depends on where you are and how bad you want to meet the guy............if you are in a bar, get him another pitcher.......beauty is always in the eye of the beer holder.........:wink:

oldsage's photo
Tue 12/11/07 10:04 AM
Edited by oldsage on Tue 12/11/07 10:14 AM
Times have changed, you have the same options as men.
Be polite, upfront & look for friends first.
You aren't a kid anymore, so all the childish games should be behind you.
Go slow & listen to that voice inside you.
Get in the forums, read what people have to say & ask for help if you have questions. Think you will soon realize there are people here that will help you learn & who they are.

no photo
Tue 12/11/07 10:04 AM
Hello and welcome Lori , to JSH .
I think you have discovered the best approach..bigsmile
Good luck and enjoy your stay .. flowerforyou

openheart45's photo
Tue 12/11/07 10:06 AM
welcome to jsh...you'll find alot of great people here..flowerforyou

lausim's photo
Tue 12/11/07 10:10 AM
I find that if it's in person like at work or out and about, a friendly smile with eye contact so that they will approach you. Yes, friendly emails are good too, just don't over do it. I'm new too!

no photo
Tue 12/11/07 10:12 AM
lauism is right....don't over do it like us hungry wolves do...............glasses

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