I'll send a message to someone and never hear back. It shows that they at least looked at my profile but thats it, they never even take they time to respond with sorry you're not what I'm looking for or no you're not my type and for some reason that always hurts more. That says your not even important enough to say no to. Is there something I'm doing wrong?

buck,, it means they are stuck up and dont wanna "degrade" themselves by talking to you,, but heres what you do,, say screw them they aint worth your time

it's the way it goes. their either too superficial and think their too good to respond, trying not to hurt anybody's feelings or just want to waste the time. it says nothing about you but does say something about them. don't let it bother you all these sites are the same way.

Don't worry about it son it happens to most of us.keep pluging away.

Gonna have to agree with thumper on that, I even put a discloser on my pager at the very top that states, "if I message you at least tell me to go to hell if your not interested." So far, it hasnt worked! Lol

Nope. I would say you are doing nothing wrong. I have had quite a few like that, but then again there are a lot of great women out there who are willing to talk. You just have to search, talk within the forums a lot and talk through quoting people. You'll get a lot more responses with your views and emails, Just be open and have fun. Seems to work sometimes but it always won't.

Just believe and keep trying good ones will start to come by if you don't give up. Email them or like I said post a lot and quote people to get replies, some won't and some will. Let them get to know you and then they'll view and maybe talk...

Guess they are just missing out then.

trying to be thumper jr fight????lmao

That's the best way to look at it.

I miss my long hair.

i hear ya boy,, fair warning,, your gonna catch hell for it though,,,lol

Yup. Got that right bro.

Wanna hear my proof on this,

I never use to delete my viewed list.
So for the 30 days it's stayed around 300
I was told that my page would load faster if I did.

So I went to work on it & as I'm clickin each one "twice"
I think this guy looks like a nice guy prolly new to the site.

I start sending notes inviting some to the forums.

So click on profile,
click send a Email.
(I was pasting the same note)
send it.
it takes me back in my mail page.
click on my acct.
click viewed list.
click to delete.
click yes im sure.

So at list 7/8 steps to each of these.
I could paste 10/15
then when i sent it would say be original.
that I could only do it 5 times.
so back thru all the steps
Write a differnt note.
I sent notes to atleast 150 guys.
(not thinking that that would make them view me AGAIN!)
so more work.
I got MAYBE 10 responces back.
& one of them said " What do you want?"
I said NOTHING!!! I was just being nice
& inviting more people to the forums.
He wrote back, I really am a nice guy!

yea QUACK!
Not that I wanted to talk to these guys
just more people posting makes it funner..

Yeaaa these guys really want to meet people..



So don't sweat the petty people
& don't pet the sweaty people!!!

Someone just IMed me and made a good point. Girls get more mail than guys.

I get lots of replies because I'm nice, cordial, and amusing.

just get out and make yourself known. and follow bikers advice,, hes a damn good fella

Shhhh biker don't be givin' out our secrets

Nooooooo sometimes in the forum you want to know who are talking too and not related to anything romantic

Forgive Thump....too many hits without a helmet

yes....you are all that and a bag of chips.