I am not so good at this game

just enjoy yourself, there's no game. maybe thats why your losing, your the only one playing. just have fun and thats it.

wow talk about a cry of desperation

life is a sport, not a game

man just be you.
your chatty enough.
Oh check it.
A great rule in the book of game. NEVER ask a question that can be answered in yes or no. NEVER do that. I.E. Do you like this song? ask open ended questions. such as What are you studying in college? something that will get them talking. Or what did you do last summer. i don't know anything that is open ended.

Its so boring to be asked closed yes or no questions.

im not that desperate lol i am just posting a thread

people don`t learn while they are talking, you have to listen

the game is going really fast i cant even catch up on my breath

what game are you talkin about? what are you playin madden or something?

i am talking about relationship and despreation and alot of feelings,,,,, i can never turn off the game

not a game, life is a contact sport, sounds like you need better pads.

oh sorry then! i got the wrong idea for a sec.

Isn't this like the 15th thread/post comment on the same subject?


When you are so busy crying woe is me.... you dont have time to see the people right in front of you.

Dude, seriously stop being down on yourself. That seems to be the major point of your posts, you want this, you want that, why can't I have this.

I hear ya man, I was 5'4 in highschool, 120pounds, I was the geek who got teased cause I was the only asian in my school.

If you want to get a lady, you need to stop making excuses and start doing things in your life for yourself. When you're young, yeah a lot of girls love the jocks, only go for looks, or the rich guys with nice stuff. But a lot of women later in life go for a guy who's going somewhere in life...be that guy.

Figure out what you want to do and what you need to do to get it, whether it's college, trade school whatever. Find activities you like doing and develop skills. I always wished I could do certain things, one day I decided to stop making excuses for myself. I can do just about anything if I work at it that's my mindset. I've learned to cook a bit (better than most guys I know), I've learned to dance (popping) and I dance better than most guys at the club. I'm learning calligraphy and cartooning as well.

Look at women's profiles what do they say. They like confidence, they love a great sense of humor. Begin to build your confidence, stop saying I can't do this or that, that's just an excuse so you don't have to try. Read a bunch of jokes and learn how to tell a good joke, girls love to laugh and they like guys who can make them laugh.

It's a new day. Stop being who you were, if you feel like you're nothing there's no reason for anyone to give you the time of day. Who cares if you're short, there are short girls out there, who cares if you're not super smart, most girls aren't super smart either. You are whoever you want to be. No more excuses, no more whining, YOU control your life not your genetics, not the family status you were born into. If you don't want to take control, if you want to be a punching bag for the world....remember that was your choice to. If you're sick of that, then CHANGE it through conviction, hard work and will.