Lot's of girl's say they want men who will take care of them and make them happy.

Only God can take care of you and make you happy.

Christians shouldn't think like that. It is pagans who think that way. Christ says, seek first the kingdom of God and it's justice, and all other things shall be added. See: Matt 6:31-33

Such selfish thoughts already create fault lines that will collapse the union.

Isn't it ironic that at this point in time, while some want out, some want in?

Two years ago, I met this nice Christian lady, from Jos, who had seen it all and then just wanted to serve God; working for food that'll never perish.

That is the kind of woman for me. A woman who will, with missionary zeal, support her partner in his work for Christ.

If both are focused on the Work of serving God, there'll be no time to focus on their individual faults. IMHO

Highflyer14

I'm sure a virtuous woman is looking forward to meeting a mighty man of valour, not a mighty man of victim/ or her Boaz not a bozo!!!

God bless you Princess, many say they are Christians but are not. do you study any aramaic hebrew ?you seem very knowledgeable

I second this. Thanks dear sister

Glory to God AlpineCowboy!!! No. I have never seen or heard of Aramaic Hebrew. I was under Apostolic ministry for almost 10 years, which was very deep! I spend a lot of time praying and studying.

Glory to God my dear sister! I'm glad we can agree!!!

You have to believe in God before you can believe in yourself

I am just guessing here. But I think he meant in reading the Old Testament, to read it by way of the Hebrew Torah. And reading the New Testament by way of the Aramaic.

Our English Bibles technically come from these original translations, but sometimes the English version is not completely translated correctly. And if we read the Torah and the Aramaic, supposedly we are reading how the English Bible should read.

This is what I believe he is referring to. I definitely could be wrong. But it's what I would think from his post

I am Apostolic myself. My Grandfather's ministry began under the legendary guidance of G.T. Haywood

I totally agree. If Christ is Number 1 in both partners lives. The the Lord takes care of the rest, as long as they understand it is about a relationship with Christ, and not religion. Had that relationship and it was the best. Thank You Jesus.