If your attracted to someone for their looks I think your in lust not love. Don't feel like lust is wrong though. Sometimes lust can lead to love. Just keep your head clear and see it for what it is.

theels...I think that's more lust then love and a bit of loneliness thrown in for good measure. Love doesn't come easy or fast generally, and I don't think it should.

Whoah!

I think you should REALLY study up on some definitions and at least get yourself in a place where you are ready for real "love".

Otherwise you are going to get run over and demolished in heart and emotions. You should start LISTENING to some of these people's answrs to your questions and really think about them. Several people have givin you some really good advise...but for some reason you still seem to be very lost.

sex sex sex.

He's 18, cut the guy a break.

The one that i'm with now i liked her when i frist seen her and nearly two year's later where now dating and i'm in love with her.

We all have been. But he does not seem to be "learning'. Not sure if you can track his posts, but should if you can and you will see what I am talking about.

I'm not hammering down on him, never have. Just know his threads well enough. I know he is young, thats why i'm trying to HELP, but you can only watch a pup chase his tail for so long too.

ok today when i walk behind my friend and saw my friend got her hair done and i was like wow... and i said "so and so" i love your hair"and all she say is thank you"

your just horny, do what i do and rub one out in the bathroom before you come on line and look at all the pretty girls. or you might end up rubbin one out while your looking at them and trust me nobody likes a sticky keyboard.

why would i be that?

I once had a dog that was obsessed with tail chasing. Should have taught her not to do it near a cliff.

ok i'll be serious on this. first your 18, you might want a relationship but by the few posts i've seen from you your in no way ready for one. you need to slow way down and just enjoy what you got, go out, have fun and forget all this nonsense. it seems to me your a tad insecure about yourself and maybe you should take the time of finding out who you are and being happy with yourself before you try this "real relationship" stuff. seeking happiness from somebody else doesn't make you happy, normally it just makes you worse. be happy with yourself and the rest will come.

love is overrated, especially during our youth. stop thinkin about it and worry about it later. MUCH later.

and im 18, too. stop making me look bad

live a little

What was she supposed to say? Thank you is an appropriate answer.

And on the original topic, real true mutual love takes time. When it hits, you will know it.

Okay Theels08, you are at one of the best schools in the country (not only my opinion), in one of the most fun college towns (once again not only my opinion), why are you not out enjoying it? Clubs, groups, frats, etc?

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OMG that doesnt mean u are inlove with her you cant be inlove with som1 for their looks, what did u want a compliment back? jeez she coulda been worse and said get lost your looser its not done yet or i hate it or yeah i know its great isnt it thankyou is the best n appropriate answer ur ganan get wen she says tahnkyou after sex then u gotta worry jeez worryin about hair hahahahaha. you are sooooo shallow soz if i seem mean but OMG LISTEN TOO PEOPLE FFS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!