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Topic: Sex
ctr916's photo
Sat 07/13/19 10:10 AM
...younger women are welcome to insist on helping with my "endurance and stamina" whenever you want.

twenty-one and above, please.

oldkid46's photo
Sat 07/13/19 11:46 AM


https://www.msn.com/en-us/health/health-news/sex-less-likely-and-less-satisfying-as-women-hit-older-age/ar-AAEbE6E?li=BBnba9O

Seems like the odds get worse with each year a lady ages after 50.


If you read the article, it is insightful..

*Men's* sexual dysfuntion is given WAY more research and credibilty than women's..which is usually written off as she's a frigid b**ch who never really liked sex anyway... noway

With men, they just throw a pill at it...no one questions what is actually causing his impotence.
(even though the actual causes may be many...heart issues, diabetes, depression, performance anxiety)

Women have no such pill..
There was one in research....I am not sure if it actually made it to the market.

There *are* real, physiological changes that take place after menopause that do make it less enjoyabvle for many....and, I know for a *fact* that insurance does not pay for Premarin (but has no issue paying for Viagra/ Cialis)

Instead of guys just assuming woman aren't interested in sex at that age...maybe a bit of looking into *why* would be better.




Insurance does not pay for Viagra/Cialis. A woman's best resource is her Doctor. Men and women both tend to blame it is just the ageing process on many things from sex to shortness of breath when in most cases there is a medical condition causing the problem and can be dealt with. Eventually they will realize that when they experience a significant medical emergency. There are many good, informative articles available for both genders.

You might find this useful: https://www.mayoclinic.org/search/search-results?q=Sexual%20dysfunction%2C%20female

I_love_bluegrass's photo
Sat 07/13/19 06:15 PM
Edited by I_love_bluegrass on Sat 07/13/19 06:16 PM





Insurance does not pay for Viagra/Cialis. A woman's best resource is her Doctor. Men and women both tend to blame it is just the ageing process on many things from sex to shortness of breath when in most cases there is a medical condition causing the problem and can be dealt with. Eventually they will realize that when they experience a significant medical emergency. There are many good, informative articles available for both genders.

You might find this useful: https://www.mayoclinic.org/search/search-results?q=Sexual%20dysfunction%2C%20female


The people *I* know that have taken Viagra/ Cialis (friend of friends of mine)..it was paid for by insurncae..
One guy got some kind of implant paid for by insurance

I merely took issue with your assertion that is is only women who experience problems sex-wise as they get older..
It is true it happenes to both genders, but it guys it's considered "let's fix it...what can I take/ do to get 'ol boner there up and ready?"

In women, it is many times assumed she just hates sex, is disintetrested in sex, it's a mental thing, stuff like that..
I *can* tell you before I finally found a doctor who LISTENED to me (back in the 80's) and found out I had endometriosis....I can't tell you *how many* doctors claimed my pain during sex was due to "resentment of my partner" or lack of lubrication...neither of which were true...
They suggested I go couples counseling.whoa

Had the laser surgery....was pain free ever after.
A bit came back some 20 years later..had that bit lasered off too... :thumbsup:


oldkid46's photo
Sat 07/13/19 10:38 PM






Insurance does not pay for Viagra/Cialis. A woman's best resource is her Doctor. Men and women both tend to blame it is just the ageing process on many things from sex to shortness of breath when in most cases there is a medical condition causing the problem and can be dealt with. Eventually they will realize that when they experience a significant medical emergency. There are many good, informative articles available for both genders.

You might find this useful: https://www.mayoclinic.org/search/search-results?q=Sexual%20dysfunction%2C%20female


The people *I* know that have taken Viagra/ Cialis (friend of friends of mine)..it was paid for by insurncae..
One guy got some kind of implant paid for by insurance

I merely took issue with your assertion that is is only women who experience problems sex-wise as they get older..
It is true it happenes to both genders, but it guys it's considered "let's fix it...what can I take/ do to get 'ol boner there up and ready?"

In women, it is many times assumed she just hates sex, is disintetrested in sex, it's a mental thing, stuff like that..
I *can* tell you before I finally found a doctor who LISTENED to me (back in the 80's) and found out I had endometriosis....I can't tell you *how many* doctors claimed my pain during sex was due to "resentment of my partner" or lack of lubrication...neither of which were true...
They suggested I go couples counseling.whoa

Had the laser surgery....was pain free ever after.
A bit came back some 20 years later..had that bit lasered off too... :thumbsup:


Medical science is a challenge not only with sexual issues but with most other issues. I've been through that with some very serious medical conditions. There is often a time for a 2nd and 3rd opinion as you have pointed out. People make assumptions about the qualifications of their Doctor only to find out later their assumptions were wrong. There are many 2nd and 3rd rate medical providers that are perfectly capable of dealing with the everyday problems but are not competent to deal with most more complicated issues. Unfortunately you learned that the hard way.

Lookingforit6469's photo
Sat 08/17/19 08:06 AM
I agree Maria

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