Topic: How do you really get to know somebody at 50+? | |
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Any thoughts?
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Any thoughts? time intereaction helps talking , doing stuff together but then again do you really ever know someone ? : ) best wishes on your hunt |
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Same way you get to know them at any age ask questions spend time together..
Age does not make it any different except where you might go to meet them.. ![]() |
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It rather depends on HOW it is that you wish to know them. What sort of "knowing" that you are referring to.
Getting to know someone for business purposes requires one sort of approach, for basic friendship another, as an otherwise uninvolved neighbor,yet another, and as a romantic interest yet again another. Also, what media you want or need to use is significant. Getting to know someone slowly through online talk, such as happens here, requires a different thinking and approach than if you get in more direct contact, and speak to them on the phone or in person. Generally, as with any endeavor, your methods will be dictated by your goals, and by the nature of the particular person who you want to get to know. |
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Like Dat and Txs said.
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Talk to them. If they like you and you like them and you feel there is chemistry there, then invite them to have dinner with you... their choice of restaurant. If they pick the most expensive restaurant, drop them like a hot potato (unless of course money is not an issue for you). If they say let's just have dinner for 2 at McDees, then she is a keeper. Bring a rose, she likes you.
Good luck ![]() ![]() |
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Edited by
Toodygirl5
on
Tue 03/05/19 07:29 PM
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Same way you would at any other age like 20, 30,40 !
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It's actually easier at 50,
than it was at a younger age. 'Cept, in the 1980s, when everyone was hammered. ![]() |
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U r pretty
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U r pretty ![]() Thank you. I work out. ![]() |
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