Thank you, guys. Now I see ask about video chat at first date bad idea. But I just so tired from fakes...

yes

Eh you learn how to spot them after a while.

Sure we all learn our lesson, one or the other way

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This..if they ask to Skype too fast it sets off warning bells & is a turn off.
After becoming closer, approach them to video chat.

sounds great, thank you.

I am much older than you, but a total of 8 dirty old men have asked me to marry them on their first message. I would not even consider a video chat.
Good Grief, are people really so desperate? I am not talking here about young foreign people, these were USof A men. (gag)

Instant gratification. People are too conditioned to instant gratification anymore.

Video chats are great if both parties trust each other.
That trust has to be established by some other means first.
M2 offers free messaging.
That messaging is vital in establishing trust.
To circumvent it, makes no sense at all.

I have been in video chat with one woman in all my dating sites (not here).
That agreement only happened after both of us understood and trusted each other. No, it was not a sex chat.

Video chat can help determine things that can't be determined in messaging.
Its really only good when distance prohibits a physical meet.
The best way to get to know someone is to actually meet them face to face.
Better than that is the unscripted meets that allows each other to see the other as they truly are.

Using the messaging system, there are tell that alert you to scammers if you are not a total brain waste.
Use some sense and put the tools that are already available to you first.
Then, when you both agree, video chat all ya want but the real test is always gunna be face to face, unscripted.

khong hẳn thế!