not flattering, not anything. make other features readily available. please and thank you! I spend too much time, deleting WHO VIEWED me (yet they've not approached) happier New Year. always, Alea

i would rather it there

well its nice to know getting hits that the sight you are on isn't dead
<shrug>
i dont delete mine
i agree it is a waist to take the time to delete them

well unless ya have o.c.d. i think its called , and its all good , i don't judge
no idea to asleep lol

congrats on your first post

Hi womansincity1
Just ignore them or hit "Delete All". I delete them all everyday so they don't accumulate. Also I like to cuss that so-and-so viewed my profile but said "bleh" and moved on. LOL Most of them are young guys from other countries prolly wanting for me to send them money but I have my filters on so they cannot message me.

Welcome to the forums
and happy new year to you too

I delete DOZENS every other day !

Maybe you should consider rewriting your profile. It contains a lot of negativity and unnecessary capital letters. Many might find it very off putting.


Welcome to Mingle and have fun.

ROSIE - i have "lost" out emails. contact me if you wish Please !
to the poster...if you are an army veteran, you should know how to push that delete button quickly. and I agree with above, you need to add some interests instead of all the negativity.

So sorry. I viewed you. It will never happen again.

I don't mind that feature. It shows that some people are interested. Nobody is obligated to write to someone just because they viewed a profile. They might think there is nothing in common. They might feel bored and feel like reading profiles. Maybe they are new here. I think it's a good feature on Mingle.

Half of mine delete themselves

I kinda like seeing who perved me.

Mine usually looks like pages out of Hustler.

While people have to view the profile in order to decide if they interested in chatting and getting to know you..
I kinda agree that it is tiring to keep deleting the profile views especially if the same people are viewing you several times in a day or over several months without messaging or saying anything. So why I don't message them instead?? Coz of age, area, interest differences or coz their profiles are completely blank and no pic!
Unfortunately you can't block anyone unless they message you.

Wasted bandwidth.

I know what you mean. Back on Dh, it was one of the best features.

It'd be cool if Facebook had that feature. Or would it, uhm....maybe not.

The who viewed me isn't the waste.
The match feature, and the send friend invite things are waste features.

I don't need something to tell me who I'm friendly with on the site...

The nudges are getting annoying as well, we're supposed to be adults here aren't we?