I have been here several months, I'm not perfect , living far in Chile, speaking broken english with 2 kids... dang maybe all Those things are too much problems for a Man

The problem is all over the world. I guess mostly there are fake profiles on this site and also there are many who do not reply. Don't know y they r on the site if they cannot atleast send a reply even if it is negative.
Hope u do find someone soon.
I m from India

Ditto Lulucita. I ain't perfect either, and there's hardly anybody to message let alone get a reply from. I've yet to recieve either a romantic message or response, let alone get a date, and I think I've been here for around 6 months. Quite frankly I've given up getting a date on here. I have a quick peek at who's online and local, that takes seconds. Then I peruse the forums, trying to find a non religious or political zealot thread, or 1 that isn't some word game, or let's all count to 1 million, yay, for a thread that might actually interest me. I honestly don't know why I bother, I'm just bored I suppose. But hey, good luck

My theory is that they have to give the illusion of lots of profiles, to try and create enough traffic to get sponsors to make money. Maybe they thought the romantic side would snowball and work. But it hasn't, but somebody somewhere makes money, so they don't really care

Well said.

I would also add that they don't even bother to read your profile.

Nobody is perfect. But I don't mind a girl who has kids. I am quite good in foreign languages, too. Most important thing is to be honest and mutual respect.

I was about to talk about the same thing, why join at all if you cant reply messages. We all have our choices though.

Hum well replying to messages are free as long as there is back and forth communication. My pay site well that is reserved for paying members.

Yeah I think you're right. maybe all of the above.

Your English is not bad and you got that expression correctly "dang" lol
where did you learn that? lol

Are you having the same results with other dating sites?

Good luck!

btw I am also not perfect... but close jk

I have been on here for years and all i get is spammers and scammers. They either want you to email them so they can spam your email or go to hangouts so they can spam you there. Plus, the locations listed on profiles are never accurate.

Thanks, thought I was the only one With this problem , wish we all find someone , in my case I'm done with men here , they never invite to a date even if I pay the half so that's the real reason y I started to look someone from other countries

I really am interested in you but the distance makes it hard I'm in Algeria never married

I wander myself why you are alone you look so attractive and talkative

We all learn from our mistakes, and sometimes we need to look outside of our boundaries, be patient and go step by step. Sometimes we feel though videochats if the chemistry is growing. But looking for a meet up straight away is always a wee bit dangerous.

Always Meeting someone will be dangerous u can see her or his face , but maybe u re dating who has is mentally unestable, so I'm up to long distance relationships then meet the guy after some months or a year, time flies, in my country of course bc i have kids 🤷‍♀️ that's my case

I agree. If you are kind of alone in your area, long distance dating is always a good start. Just be careful giving out personal details too fast

You have to remember this is just another manner of meeting new people. Please be cautious as you will have to weed out the fake profiles. I agree with Delightful and others, you don't have to answer all emails you receive and not replying is an answer. So many people try to change your mind when you try to be kind & reply telling you aren't interrested. I stopped replying unless I'm possibly interested.

It is very obvious when someone does not read your profile and messages you.

I have been on here for 2 years now and have met a lot of wonderful people on here. I have not found what I am looking for yet, but I am not giving up - because I just haven't met him yet!

Best wishes for everyone in 2019!

From South Carolina here you are very beautiful I'm not perfect myself but who is I have 2 sons myself raising by myself and looking for true love is hard but don't give up

fact

🤣 I don't think that's too much to handle....hey....