I have met a couple guys that have seemed nice on this site. After talking a while on here, I give them my number and we have great conversations on the phone. After a couple telephone conversations and planning some dates, I never hear from them again. Is there something wrong with me or with them? Thank you for listening:)

no nothing is wrong whit u...... some pple just get scared from "online meeting" when it actually comes down to the actually meeting..... but yet they want to talk about it and plan it go figure

And here I was thinking it was me!! Nope, it is them.

but..you could be an axe murderer:)

You will never understand men...just like we never understand women.....I would not let it get you down

No, I told them that it was fine if we met in person

take it from an old internet pro...this thing we call the "internet"..is 100% of how you represent yourself....if you make it to what i call phase 2 which is about 80%..never will happen and 10%..will call you...if you take that 10% and develop a "telephone relationship"..with the other person...all it takes is one negative thing out of your mouth to kill that relationship...then u r down to that 1% of actually meeting the person who found you on this electronic thing..and about 1/2 % of those will be even compatable..so good luck girl...and have fun...remember numbers are the only way to find a true person that is compatable...

Maybe they think they will have to keep up with that "Jack" guy in your picture:)

Yeah, I've run into this a few times -- it seems that there are some people who are pretty functional as long as the interaction is kept to the "no-meeting-in-person" level -- but they develop a sort of "stage fright" when it's time to take that next step.

I figure, if you're actually trying to meet someone in person, you're better off identifying and eliminating the "stage frighters" from your pool of hopefuls -- they're never going to develop into anything. They might be fine as long distance friends (some people just seem to be born for that role, and how's THAT for a left-handed compliment?), but anything beyond that is a fantasy.

Well I just looked at your profile (don't think I'm some dirty old man) and I see nothing worng at all. It may be the guys your age, plus it being California (land of fruits flakes and nuts..no I am NOT from here myself), but there does not appear to be anything "wrong" wth you.

If you were 10 years older, then I would definitely take you out to get to know you better. :) It's just got to be the guy.

Best of luck to you!

it's them! I had a similar experience from a guy on here not to long ago, EXCEPT we went out / got together three times, I met his son, he met my son, he told me all kinds of stuff about his life, etc..and now for liek the last two weeks I have MAYBE gotten a total of 5 text messages from him and they are cold compared to the ones he had been sending...So I don't think it is us, I think it might just be (at least some of the guys) the guys...
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an axe murder come ne get real who does that these days? LMAO

trust me i have met more pple offline then i have in real life some still talk to me and some dont.... i dated a few but for the most part we met as friends and so its all good... if i die b4 i met someone i didnt know .... oh wait.... isnt there a first meeting for everyone u know in real life and not just on here? so how u know the person u meet tomorrow in the grocery store aint an axe murder too? geeez

Perhaps they are married and never thought it would go as far as a meeting.......don't give up. the right one will come along.

Dreamer-

No, there is nothing wrong with you. You are an articulate lady, so I would think you are a good communicator. The problem is with those guys, who don't know how to communicate - immaturity. Therefore, you would not want to be in any sort of relationship with them anyhow.

I never saw it that way. I didn't know that so many people were afraid of meeting in person. Thank you all for your advice .

I am confused.....are you telling me to put my axe away?

omg thats to funny! yes dear put it away before u scare someone! lmao

I actually told a guy who I was going to meet that I was afraid he might end up an ax murderer....is that were I went wrong

Nothing wrong with you, they are the ones who missed out on a great time with you. Whe I meet some one from online, for the frist time I always meet in a public place, and always have my cell phone on me, and my lids know where I am, who i'm with, and his number 2. I've had alot of fun, make some good friends, but nothing wrong with being safe.

THank you pennyg281. It is always a good idea to be safe. I just don't like how they plan all these dates and then I never hear from them again:(

you think there's something wrong with you? seriously, at least you talk to people and plan dates, thats farther then i've been with a girl in 7 years. things like that happen all the time, you'll just stress yourself out worrying about it.