Bluesky--2 weeks? Oh my, I would just feel like that is really rushing things. I mean I do agree with you about the chemistry, but, I think you can get to know someone and add to that chemistry.
If you put up a recent picture...you are going to look like your picure. If you talk on the phone, then you will see how you can connect that way...if you find it hard to come up with things to talk about, then you will know you might not connect.
I do find a lot of red flags, BUT am I being over cautious? I kind of wonder if I am. I wonder IF I try to find red flags..it sounds crazy..but why can I find those red flags on everyone? I just don't understand it.

Unsure--You wrote, "I am looking for a man that can look deep into my eyes and know exactly what I am thinking-"

That is the problem....there is no guy in this world or lifetime that can look into your eyes or any woman's eyes & know what they are thinking....

I would guess that your 'personal agenda' (your checklist of what you want) is so restrictive that eventually you will find fault in just about any guy....you seem like a really nice person maybe you need to lighten up a bit....I know I need to....

You really think you can judge a population based on a sample of "a couple?"
Try a couple more...then a few more...then several more...get into the rhythm

...and I think you mean "since," not "sense" lol

best of luck man

I think you are probably right Blusky...maybe thats why I am only really looking for friends. I think my life is to complicated for anyone right now, so I just enjoy my life the way it is!!
BTW, you do have a very nice profile! BUT I am hoping to find that man some day..HMMM who knows, he might exist!!

That man exists for you....And when the pieces of your life come together, it will happen....probably when you least expect it....
P.S. I enjoyed your profile too....that guy is gonna be one lucky soul....

LMAO no date age? really is there such a thing? i think every man i have tried to date in he past 4 years have been 27, 22, or yeah out in the out fields 36.... they always end up being those ages when i find them lol.

my advice to the guy who wants to give up.... u cant do that but just sit back and quit looking so hard, u just might be blind to the one who really u should see. i was for 4 years....... he finally caught my attention, my lil stalker lmao but really sit back and have some fun, yall will find each other when time is right.

Hi,

I appreciate all your comments an advice. I don't believe I did anything wrong. I didn't pressure her into meeting me as I asked nicely and I got a negative result that is why im questioning my own tactics.

I'm not at all mad at her, but I can take a hint so I won't bother her anymore as it seems I'm not what she is looking for.

Thanks folks...