I'm new to this, so sorry if this isn't up to par. Why is it that guys always play mind games? One minute they like you, the next the don't. Are there ANY nice, ROMANTIC guys left?! I swear, they are all either taken or gay. What ever happened to a guy being romantic?

Hi , welcome, most of the guys here are pretty good guys ! Maybe you will have some luck here !

hehehe

I hope so! LOL

be nice.

Why is it that women always make blanket assumptions?

(Too recursive? Too subtle?)

I have dated guys before who were nice in the begining, but it never lasted. I have dated guys who say one thing to me, and another to someone else. I have never truly dated a nice, romantic guy

You know it goes both ways. My last gl did the "f*ck with your head" games. Then she'd apologize and do it again. On top of that, I was the romantic one and she was not. This is not to down every quality as there were good ones but the bad ones were oh so so bad.

Bummer really. But good luck to you. Don't worry bout a thing....just keep a sharp eye out and pray that things work out.

J

Suppose that means what romance is to you....

I open doors
Set up occassions
Roses on the bed
Give my coat
Write poems, songs, cards....
I never looked at another woman

Done it all....... You know what it got me........ So you.... you must do those nice things yourself and hope that they come back..... If you don't see them early then run.

hahaha! a lot of the new member posts tend to be about ALL ____(insert gender here)

What is it that you do to attract men like this? Why do you date them?
Not all men are like that and when someone starts off with comments like yours, I usually stay away.

Oh my..... Your only 22. Come on..... I've been through 4 anti-romantic relationships where in the beginning its all lovey and kisses..... Then later on its the freeze.

Don't worry darlin' (I mean that in a nice way). You got a better chance at getting what you want.... than I do ... I think.

You take a chances and give your best. If it doesn't work then you've done your best. That is important for you.

Never let anyone get you down is my advise. Never fall for someone when you can truely see there are signs that you should hold off.

Out of the 4 majors only 1 fooled me.... My exwife. The others I saw signs. My ex was good at hiding her real mean self.

Romantic guy here , not taken
&
DEFINALTY NOT GAY

People in general suck.....just an update for all

hey! i do not suck, thankyouverymuch. =[

well you are one of the few......good for you....

me niether !!!

haha. thanks? i generally tend to like people...why do they all suck?

I suck beer outta glasses.

There are AS MANY LADIES that PLAY mind games as there are MEN....

What it comes down to is simple,

One just wanted to see how you both could get along, then found out "YOU" were not what THEY thought you were?

Or they just wanted to get you in bed and use you, then lost their interests in YOU?

Or YOU were to MUCH for THEM TO HANDLE, cocky, smart-azz, bit-chie all the time....ect, but "YOU" don't relize YOU ARE LIKE THAT!!?

But to be REAL with ya, I would say that MOST just are out to get ya in bed,,,then make ANY excuse to FIND something ELSE WRONG with YOU....


THATS been what I have found in SOME ladies....