why not,pls pm me

where?

I am for you

hiii I'm Interested

y not we became friends

Ive been single for a few years now. Im looking!!!

Friends!!?

Hi my mom

The reason you are getting a lot of 49 year olds messaging you is because most 35-55 women(fresh out of divorce or kids fresh out of the house) don't want relationships and you do plus you look GREAT especially considering you are 68. I'm 48 and most women my age I meet want "casual dating/ nothing serious"

I think no, because major are faks

A man Messages me, he looks like santa clause , I said he could be scam and it made him mad.

Ms. beautiful, how was heaven when you left it?

hmmm

hello honey...I'm interested.. can we chat privately please

Hi, I too live in Gainesville. I've been on here for about two weeks - recently divorced. I have gotten about 120 messages or so in my mailbox from "women looking to date", but in reality I have actually had only 20 or so real conversations with different women - the rest are of course fakers. Although none fakers have come right out and asked for money, but they are always asking me to got to a site called "hangout" - which I am suspicious of - so, I stop talking to those "girls" and put them in the faker category - why text there when you can text here - right? What's the big deal? Now, out of the actual women that I have talked to, most live just out of the comfortable driving range - Jacksonville or Tampa/Orlando area. I haven't had any meaningful conversations with anyone from Gainesville yet. Gainesville is a tough place - it's one big college town - filled with young people (away from home for the first time) wanting to have sex with other young people - I get it and it's cool, but for us older folks it's much harder to find people here. Most that I have run into (while i was married and now single) are already in some type of relationship. If your not in college, Gainesville seems to be a town where people settle down in. I have been going downtown to Rocky's dueling piano bar, where you would think there would be an older crowd - not really, again, mostly college kids. I know from experience there are "real" people on this dating site - wanting to date - just finding a few that you have common interests with is the difficult part. Good luck and maybe I'll see you around town, Richard

I had to Google what hanghout was a while back..because I had no idea what it was..
The scammers are always the ones to push to go there right away....with bulls**t like "I am not on here very much"...or I am not able to use the internet much'..
(then..how do you access hangout???)

~ANYONE~ who immediately pushes to go off-site is fake, and up to no good..
Several sites even say that in their "Helpful Hints" ("Beware of people who try to move the conversation right away to text, personal email or phone conversations.")

Yes

Good question.

Thank you Holiday Girl for keeping it real. It is so true. 10 out of 10 men for me SEX ONLY is their end game...this is unfortunate. Those lacking common sense and no home training. Oh and the worse are the private pictures when you finally exchange cell phones. I have lost hope. My heart is open, but the last guy that sent me his privates. I made him cry. He meant no harm. I meant no harm. But, ultimately it comes down to "wanting one thing" for both a male or female. If I want more depth, its like trying to undo a curse. I changed my pics to more plain. Some men do not care for intelligence and beauty. Oh well, what can you do. I dream of owning horses and some chickens rather than a real man. They just do not exist in this day and age. Also, its the energy we put out that may send the wrong message. I am a sexual being. So, I strive to have intellectual conversations vs. sexual ones. Then wham! It turns sexual anyway. After that I decide whether to jibe along in good nuture or kill the conversation. I usually end it because that is not what I want ... which is just sex with no depth. No thanks!

Good idea, I just discovered the forums. But yes so many fake profiles. I ward them off by putting it in my profile, NO FAKES.

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