what can a 18 year old male do? to let girls notice him and maybe start a relationship and he want her to be in his life.

be yourself, only thing i can tell ya

no i dont smoke sorry

welcome to jsh. it pays to advertise.

Sometimes you gotta
make the first move.

Go introduce yourself. Talk. See what her interests are & if you share any. Don't try to hard to "impress", just be natural. Respect her friends.

18 and you want to be in a relationship with someone who is in a completely different mind set than you are?

I would never have dated someone that 'old' when I was 18 and I've never mentally been my age.

If you're mentally closer to 25 than you are to 18 and do not relate well to people your own age then you need to socialize with people who are older than you. Generally a woman over 25 is not into partying all night long at bars every night of the week ... they have work and responsibilities to take care of. I'm not saying that they don't have fun, but 18 is party-hardy and 25+ realizes that partying is not as important as it was. And I know some people (my friends) who are 30+ and still think that spending 4+ hours in a bar 7 nights a week is fun ... I've never thought so, it's a mute point and we like each other for being different.