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Topic: HONESTLY
jennyxcx's photo
Thu 10/25/18 03:10 PM
are good, simple, honest, caring, loyal, and single men still men still existing?

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Thu 10/25/18 03:38 PM
Yes, but they are all presently in the Helix Nebula.

Dodo_David's photo
Thu 10/25/18 03:39 PM

are good, simple, honest, caring, loyal, and single men still men still existing?


They are on back-order. indifferent

Rock's photo
Thu 10/25/18 04:01 PM

are good, simple, honest, caring, loyal, and single men still men still existing?


Haven't seen any.

Kwikdraw1's photo
Thu 10/25/18 04:03 PM
Yes ,you just have to sift through all the bs ,I have asked myself that about the women good luck with your search

MK2's photo
Thu 10/25/18 04:58 PM

are good, simple, honest, caring, loyal, and single men still men still existing?

Nah... We call them loasers drool

MK2's photo
Thu 10/25/18 04:58 PM

are good, simple, honest, caring, loyal, and single men still men still existing?

Nah... We call them loasers drool

Im1wthu11's photo
Thu 10/25/18 06:07 PM
Agreed

Real Tx Girl's photo
Thu 10/25/18 06:19 PM
There are some out there but, they are very hard to find.

Poetrywriter's photo
Thu 10/25/18 06:20 PM

are good, simple, honest, caring, loyal, and single men still men still existing?


I'm really close on this one, but the good, simple, honest, caring, loyal, and single is what keeps me from being a match. tears

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Thu 10/25/18 06:21 PM
are good, simple, honest, caring, loyal, and single men still men still existing?

Yeah. I think I understand the tolerances of the terms you're using.
It's a common call when the biological clock is ticking more loudly in women in their 30's.
But you're kinda screwed if you're over about 25 and under about 45.

Ya see, when young, good, simple, honest, caring, loyal, and single men are all of these things because they haven't yet discovered that this really doesn't work at getting women, keeping women, or getting laid, or in anything much in life except for people to make judgments of them like "oh, he's such a nice guy, he makes a good friend."

Especially when the common advice for young ladies is "go out and have fun! You're too young to worry about that stuff now! Focus on school, your career, your independence and self sufficiency, discovering who you are, you can always settle down later."

So young men learn that being good, simple, honest, caring, loyal, doesn't get them anywhere except frustrated as it's thrown back in their face, used against them, and they're called naive, and boring, and clingy, and nice, and stuck in the friend zone, and all sorts of things that ultimately doesn't equate to social validation. IOW those traits aren't reinforced.

Just like when babies learn that when they cry they get food, and nurturing, and changed, and played with, and ultimately start crying and crying and crying, and the parents have to learn to not immediately pick it up?
Same thing. If behavior, behavioral traits, habits, ideas, aren't reinforced? They learn something new to get what they want.

Those that stick with the whole "good, simple, honest, caring, loyal" schtick tend to become a smaller population and get snatched up pretty quickly. Either by women who love to use those types of guys for their own egos/means, leading to them being off the market for a few years or decades, or snatched up by women that know how to value them, leading to potentially life time commitments.

Then a little past middle age and the mid life crisis, mid-late 40's, 50's, all the guys that left the whole "good, simple, honest, caring, loyal" schtick come back. Because look at the words you use. Being anything other than those things takes a lot of effort and money and stress and time and annoyance. Who has that kind of energy keeping track of lies? Paying fines for "bad" behavior or threatening the stuff they got? Who wants anything other than simple when you're trying to deal with middle age/dying family, your job, pressure from younger people, obsolete skills, retirement around the corner. Lack of loyalty means juggling women, more money on dates and hotels, there are better things to spend it on. Caring? More joy in more simple things. Thanks antidepressants and blood pressure pills due to work!


So:
are good, simple, honest, caring, loyal, and single men still men still existing?

Sure. But unless you're willing to date a lot younger, or older, those traits among single people around your age are going to be relatively rare and you're going to have to put a lot more effort into finding them than just starting a billboard thread in the hopes that the needle in the haystack will jump up, start dancing and chasing you and validating you to get your attention.

mzrosie's photo
Thu 10/25/18 06:34 PM


are good, simple, honest, caring, loyal, and single men still men still existing?


I'm really close on this one, but the good, simple, honest, caring, loyal, and single is what keeps me from being a match. tears


Poetry, this must be your lucky day happy
Here is a beautiful woman looking for a guy like you... don't blow it flowerforyou

Poetrywriter's photo
Thu 10/25/18 06:41 PM



are good, simple, honest, caring, loyal, and single men still men still existing?


I'm really close on this one, but the good, simple, honest, caring, loyal, and single is what keeps me from being a match. tears


Poetry, this must be your lucky day happy
Here is a beautiful woman looking for a guy like you... don't blow it flowerforyou



Rosie, don't tell everyone but I fit all those qualities. It will ruin my reputation if it gets out. laugh

mzrosie's photo
Thu 10/25/18 06:45 PM
It will be our secret winking

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Thu 10/25/18 07:27 PM
We are still here but have been turned off by all the feminists and the 'Me Too' crap!! We have all moved underground and will only come out again when all the controlling women and gold diggers have gone back to Venus...…
Where are the real feminine women?

FEMININE
[fem-uh-nin]

adjective
pertaining to a woman or girl:
feminine beauty; feminine dress.
having qualities traditionally ascribed to women, as sensitivity or gentleness.

actionlynx's photo
Thu 10/25/18 08:05 PM
I stopped professing to be any of those things a long time ago when I left Mingle for awhile.

Instead, that's what testimonials are for. I still have a couple. Used to have more before certain members deactivated.

But hey, if any of my forum friends ever feel like adding their own testimonial to my profile, just let me know by email. Or if my filter has you blocked (which it shouldn't for most all of you), you can send me a friend request with a message.

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Thu 10/25/18 08:28 PM
The good men are still out there. I see them and stand up for them.

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Thu 10/25/18 09:42 PM

We are still here but have been turned off by all the feminists and the 'Me Too' crap!! We have all moved underground and will only come out again when all the controlling women and gold diggers have gone back to Venus...…
Where are the real feminine women?

FEMININE
[fem-uh-nin]

adjective
pertaining to a woman or girl:
feminine beauty; feminine dress.
having qualities traditionally ascribed to women, as sensitivity or gentleness.




:thumbsup:

The feminist movement derailed itself. It's more "hate men" than actually inclusive of every woman's choice. Choice of education, career, marriage/no marriage, kids/no kids, stay-at-home/work.

ALL THE WHILE, STILL SEXUALLY OBJECTIFYING THEMSELVES!!!

Men have, as a result, been confused for 40 yrs. They don't know what the hell they're supposed to do.

I consider myself an equity feminist. Equal pay/equal work, balance of opportunities. But still feminine in all ways. And that was while having a career in the oil and gas industry with 90% men. Still feminine.

The screaming and yelling is a bunch of bs.

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Fri 10/26/18 05:15 AM

Totto's photo
Fri 10/26/18 05:46 AM

are good, simple, honest, caring, loyal, and single men still men still existing?

No. That guy was crucified over 2000yrs ago.

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