For those who are seeking a long-term relationship, Would You consider getting involved with a legally married. Person that is Not living with their spouse ?

Nope. If I wan't drama I'll switch on the TV.

Nope.

I used to think I would IF I knew a divorce was in the works. But as I've gotten older, I just don't want the potential headaches. I'd wait until after the divorce was finalized. Even then, I would probably wait to make sure any drama had settled down.

not seeking any longer
and no i would not mess with a married lady

This thread is for Women also !

Thanks guys !

Nope!

No. Too many jealous spouses with gnus.

I think dating anyone who hasn't had complete closure from previous relationship isn't a good idea.

No
Don't matter the reason... For me married no

Would you, could you in a boat?.......I'm sorry. I thought this was about Dr. Seuss.

NOPE, not in a boat, not in car, not in a bar,

NOPE,NOPE,NOPE

"Start spreadin' the gnus, I'm leavin' today.
I want to be a part of it
New York, New York." lol

And I'm with the people who will not even consider a married person.

No for me. If they apart for a month or two, there is a chance they'll get back together. If it's been 5 years separated? What is the hold up? Get a divorce already.

Honestly, I talked with a guy on this site who said he was separated for 7 years!

Gnu on Left: "Are those Humans making fun of us?"
Gnu in Center: "Relax, Bro. They aren't the sharpest species on the planet."

If, it had been awhile, since I last had companionship,
I might consider a temporary FWB situation with a
'separated, but still legally married' woman.

But, a longterm relationship with a married woman?


Just Hell to the nah!

I dated my Ex. Off and on for 3yrs after our divorce because I was in love with him. He was better as a date ! I didn't have to live with him cause he was not a good husband.

I would.. Let us face it
We are in Middle Age where jealousy has no place

If I saw them on a dating site, like I just notice on their profile "I'm still legally married but we're not living together!"
No. I wouldn't consider getting involved with them.

If I knew someone, someone I worked with, someone I was friends of a friend with, had interacted with them before, I was attracted to them, who they were, their life situation?
Sure.


But I'm not sure I meet your criteria of "seeking a long-term relationship."
I assume anyone can turn into a long term relationship, or it can end at any time, but I don't specifically seek that out like I have a checklist I bring with me nor consciously compare people to in fulfilling some long term goal.

"Getting involved" is kind of vague.
Whether they are married or not I wouldn't make any kind of long term commitment on the first date, nor do I see a date a commitment or guarantee of future behavior.

Well people, I am legally separated, not divorced. I’m not wasting money on a divorce when I have no intention of getting married again. Everything is finalized and believe me, there is no way we will get back together.

As long as he doesn’t remarry, my grandson and I are covered under his medical insurance. I don’t see the problem with dating someone who is legally separated but not divorced.