I can drive and have for years!

I had a man to say he's looking for a woman for a relationship, who can drive.

I told him, what makes him think I don't want a Man that can drive. He is a man of interest Not on Mingle.

Men have so many Preferences in a woman for relationship.

What makes them think, Women don't have Preferences too!

Can he drive , cook, give massage, good kisser, clean house, wash dishes, do yard work ? What ??

Okay...

While I'm driving, cooking, giving massages,
cleaning house, washing dishes, doing yardwork,
AND, maintaining full time employment...


What exactly, is the woman doing? :raised eyebrow emoji:

I make a mean Mac N' Cheese.

She's busy complaining about how she wishes you were a better man and spent more time with her.

I'd guess she's doing the same things

Preferences?

No younger than 35
No older than 49
Not a couch potato
Not an incessant complainer
Not an angry rebel
Willing to share in the cleaning
Has at least average intelligence
Possesses empathy and compassion
Hopefully possesses some creative spark

The list is incomplete, but I never remember the whole thing which is why I tend to just wing it these days. It's much easier than just being fussy.

Why these things?
Because I already fit most of them. If a woman can't match certain traits that I already possess, then we just aren't going to be compatible. Period.

Of course, age is subjective. It changes all the time with me. There will always be exceptions to the rule. And as I age, I tend to raise the upper limit further above my own age. So who knows what it will actually be 2 years from now.

Some preferences that I'm not strict on are:

Brunette, dark hair
Dark skin complexion
Average height
No children

...

Some things that I'm more strict on any more are:

Since I'm a smoker and am not going to quit, she should also be a smoker.

She must at least want children, as I already have children, but I don't want any more, unless she already has children.

She must be older than me at least by one year, but not more than ten.

She must have happiness with herself and not expect me to provide her happiness.

...

Just a few things, not a complete list.

No you know you just broke some women,s hearts likes us old gals that look like where in our mid fourty's instead of mid fifty's

Where's mine

My references are simple
Decent hearted LADY, simple & sweet
If she can drive big rig is huge plus

I have an IQ of 2 and a half. I lick windows while I drive the short bus slowly and out of alignment, up hill, both ways, in the snow, in 150 degree heat, 100 miles around a single block and the neighbors are concerned, but not worried... What possible preferences could I possibly have......?

I know. It was bound to happen sooner or later, unfortunately.

Oddly enough, I've always gotten along better with people who are older than me. I never fully understood whether it was me or just them.

On the other hand, I used to have my age maximum at 5 years younger than me....because I still wanted kids. But now I'm getting a bit old to be thinking of starting a family. So I'm beginning to gravitate towards the 45 - 50 mark. I only have 35 as the minimum because I don't want to sell myself short by being too rigid.

I can but, only when the guys at work leave it parked on my way.
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You Rigid no way.️️

Is that mean you have enough space for big rig to park in front of your house? SOLD

Someone like Wonder Woman Lynda Carter would be nice.
(Well I can dream can't I)

I'm more of a compromise kind of gal...

If he can give a good massage, I'll wash the dishes

If he's a good kisser, I'll drive and he can check out the scenery

If he does the yard work, I'll clean the house

And hopefully we'll both be doing the cookin'

one point for You !

Now here is a Man with a LIST !

Thanks for Sharing ! Men have LISTS too !