Topic: ~~WHY DO MEN CHEAT, WHEN THEY HAVE A GOOD THING AT HOME?~~
johncarl's photo
Thu 12/06/07 10:07 PM
i dont know?

BlueskyJ's photo
Thu 12/06/07 10:23 PM
Maybe he didn't have it so great at home....I'm not saying men are not tempted & make a mistake....but if the mistake continues than there are underlying relationship issues....sometimes we need to look at ourselves first....


~~MY MAN HAD IT MADE AT HOME, BUT HE DECIDED TO CHEAT, WHY?

Hermokrates's photo
Fri 12/07/07 12:28 AM
Seriously now. If he had the "whole" package at home, he would not have left. Think about it. If I am missing something in...let's say a puzzle. I am going to go get that missing piece. Period.
That means whatever you "had" was flawed, and kinda made you manipulative. That's what I see. If you were to put me, a poverty stricken bastard next to a CEO of a business. You would got for the CEO, because he has something I don't. That's how it goes, if you don't have it all you will have nothing.

AMORPRECIOSA's photo
Fri 12/07/07 09:04 AM
~~BECAUSE SHE IS STUPID JUST LIKE THE MAN WHO CHEATS~~

atomicd's photo
Fri 12/07/07 09:07 AM
woman are just the same they cheat just as much period

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Fri 12/07/07 09:58 AM
fortsmithman:

Hats off to you!! You're a good man and I agree with the despising cheaters comment. And I'd never compare a man to a bad car, either. That's just weird.

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Fri 12/07/07 10:00 AM
Hermokrates:

I'd much rather date a man without money, than a CEO. There are too many reasons to list, but the main ones would be...he would be arrogant, a player, way too into himself, etc. A man without money understands what it's like to live and struggles that a woman goes through. A CEO simply wouldn't care. They are kinda like lawyers, no hearts.

Tobias1540's photo
Fri 12/07/07 12:32 PM
Seeing as I am going to school to go into business I resent that, i know where you are comming from, but still. lol

Lily0923's photo
Fri 12/07/07 12:36 PM

woman are just the same they cheat just as much period


Real men and real women don't cheat.... little boys and girls cheat.

CrystalClear's photo
Fri 12/07/07 12:44 PM
Hhhhhhhmmmmm, you've brought up a topic that is very sensitive and that could keep this thread going with conversation for a very long time....Yes, I agree, MOST men cheat, and cause women to come back with a vengeance.devil ...OK, here goes the hate mail.LOLlaugh laugh laugh

Real men and women don't cheat???? Sorry Lilly, but that's Bullsh*t!!!!

OrangeCat's photo
Fri 12/07/07 12:46 PM
in my opinion woman cheat more then men these days.but its all a game to get them before they get u what its coming down to now

Dragoness's photo
Fri 12/07/07 12:53 PM
One of the many reasons not to date a needy man. He is greedy and wants more than one woman could ever give but he wants to keep at least one woman hanging around so he never has to be alone. There are psychological problems at play but to keep it simple, if he is always under you and always needing you for something, those are signs of a too needy man and you should run. We as women always take the needyness as us giving love and support but really it is an illness. Hope that helpsflowerforyou

OrangeCat's photo
Fri 12/07/07 12:56 PM
but woman can be just as bad as men when it comes to that dragon

CrystalClear's photo
Fri 12/07/07 12:56 PM
ANYONE WATCHED "BRIDGES OF MADISON COUNTY". Yup, it happens..ohwell

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Fri 12/07/07 12:57 PM
Men always wanna try more ***** i guess..noway

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Fri 12/07/07 12:58 PM

Seriously now. If he had the "whole" package at home, he would not have left. Think about it. If I am missing something in...let's say a puzzle. I am going to go get that missing piece. Period.
That means whatever you "had" was flawed, and kinda made you manipulative. That's what I see. If you were to put me, a poverty stricken bastard next to a CEO of a business. You would got for the CEO, because he has something I don't. That's how it goes, if you don't have it all you will have nothing.
If a man or a woman is NOT HAPPY with what they have..they should BREAK UP WITH THAT PERSON FIRST before looking for someone else:smile:

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Fri 12/07/07 01:00 PM

Seriously now. If he had the "whole" package at home, he would not have left. Think about it. If I am missing something in...let's say a puzzle. I am going to go get that missing piece. Period.
That means whatever you "had" was flawed, and kinda made you manipulative. That's what I see. If you were to put me, a poverty stricken bastard next to a CEO of a business. You would got for the CEO, because he has something I don't. That's how it goes, if you don't have it all you will have nothing.
On the surface.. that has 'some' validity. But... if I was the cheater? It is oh so convenient! How easily I could deflect the accountability to other people, places and things for an act that I alone conceived and performed!

It does not consider the other available option of:

Grow a set. Be honest with myself and the one (or ones, if there is family involved.)I'm with. Leave because I am 'unsatisfied'. Then pursue what ever it is I am pursuing.

CrystalClear's photo
Fri 12/07/07 01:01 PM
Yes, but unfortunately this is not what happens; they want to have you as a cushion pillow....Also, sometimes they are happy; they are just selfish and want to feel the rush of scoring; and there are many, many more reasons.

Dragoness's photo
Fri 12/07/07 01:05 PM

but woman can be just as bad as men when it comes to that dragon


OCflowerforyou did not mean to be discriminatory, women are the samebigsmile

Dragoness's photo
Fri 12/07/07 01:08 PM

Seriously now. If he had the "whole" package at home, he would not have left. Think about it. If I am missing something in...let's say a puzzle. I am going to go get that missing piece. Period.
That means whatever you "had" was flawed, and kinda made you manipulative. That's what I see. If you were to put me, a poverty stricken bastard next to a CEO of a business. You would got for the CEO, because he has something I don't. That's how it goes, if you don't have it all you will have nothing.


noway Oh and I forgot the macho man who is always willing to "one up" his woman when the opportunity to do so arisesnoway huh ohwell grumble :angry: explode