Misty you do indeed have the beauty of a goddess. You are by far more hotter than some of the 18 yr olds on this site. The same goes for you nurjoyce You're another lady is is better loking than some of the 18 yr olds. and you two will find that special someone. Now I know it's a real pity I'm not in Texas.

i met someone

hell, maybe I need to get a santa suit and go to texas, LOL

Do tell maja who is the lucky person.

Remember due to rule changes Santa Can only say hahaha now not hohoho

then he's a lucky guy!

congrats maja

This topic made me think of this song:


On how I wish Dallas was in Tennessee
If I could move Texas east
Then she'd be here with me
Then nothin' else would come between the two of us
If Dallas was in Tennessee

very nice wmyer

congrats maja...maybe I will say the same some day!

but...

she would still be in Houston ;)

I'm off to bed...5:00am can hurt without enough sleep!

Thanks to everyone for helping smile before I go to sleep....my heart doesn't feel quite as heavy and I appreciate your time and kind words!

Happy Friday to EVERYONE!!!

Misty

yea i am in the same boat, but im out there talking to different people trying to get a feel for em. im alone deep inside and i dont know when that will change, but faith is most important.

Well too bad I live in Greece then:P And too bad there isnt any greek site like this one... you can actually share your thoughts here much more easily than in many real life social settings. People open up and share what they truly feel and believe, but they would often be reluctant to do so in real life. This is worth so much. Even if I cant use this to find someone interesting (not many people from my part of the world over here)it is still stimulating and apealing to me.

[This post got overly... huge! I wrote it as "it came" right out of my mind. It's entirely unedited but this my advice from heart for both singles and non-singles :) hope you agree/like this]

Those of you that find someone... appreciate him/her. Love everything about the person, love their faults, their weaknesses.. after all it is what makes as human. Don't forget that we often don't aprecciate what we have until we have lost it. So enjoy every moment with that special guy. Care about him as you care about yourself. Appreciate their interest in you and their feelings. Do your part to help the relationship grow.
Don't let your ego get the best of you! Try to put aside the bad things and look at the positives. Even if you eventually can't get along you will enjoy the experience with them more.

Be yourself and enjoy this bonding. Don't get too anxious about being a perfect person. Try, but its ok if you can't be perfect. No one is! That is a soothing thought.

If you are alone don't let it get you down (like it gets me down sometimes). Life is beautiful even if it gets lonely.
You dont have to feel lonely if you dont want to, actually. Learn to enjoy the little things in life. Watch a movie. Watch Amelie. A must-see movie for all of us loners out there. Think about the people who filmed it. They werent just doing their jobs, they put a little of their hearts in it. Because their feelings were a bit like yours. These people understood that loneliness can get to you, while it shouldnt. They all worked on it to help you see, that you can enjoy the little things in life. You are not alone. They did this for you. You have the love and understanding of all those people that have been there. They wouldnt want you to hurt. I wouldnt want you to hurt.

So take heed! Enjoy your moments with yourself. You have absolute freedom and that is one good thing about not having a partner. Go crazy!! Every piece of food and every drop of water or drink that you put in your mouth should be a festival, of enjoying life. Every step you take out the road proves your worth. Because you keep trying! Sing out loud the songs you like. No one will think you sound bad. Don't care about how you sound. Just let it all out! Don't stop trying! Try to find a thing means something to you. You can be anything you wish to. Someone once said, "There is no "I cannot". There is just "I don't want to"."

You are reading this so you have the internet. Exploit it! You can learn almost everything there is about almost anything. Did you ever wonder about how something works? You can know that! It's all out there waiting to be googled. Knowledge can make you happy. Read up on what Physics has to say about Comsology. You'll feel a sense of wonder!! Things that were science fiction in the first Star Wars movies are actually reallities today!! You live in a magical world. The miracles are all out there around you! There is an amazing wealth of knowledge waiting to be had. You have every right to be entusiastic about anything that you like! Love life! And love yourself as a part of life.

Enjoy your time and stop worrying about finding a mate. If you see someone you like approach them! Without worrying to much about it. Find a way to give them the gift of this happines, this enthusiasm you have gained about life. You dont need a lot of money, fame, or luck to be happy. Its OK if you are single. In fact you are a bold hero to stand against those who would want you believe that being single is a failure. Because there is absolutely nothing worng with it! Don't doubt yourself too much. Enjoy what you do! Your mind is your greatest strength. You can go anywhere, feel anything, meet anyone, be anyone with your mind. Your mind is a gift! Be happy and thankfull for it! Be you, be true!

YES!!! the past bites ya in the ass everytime you're not keepin an eye on it..

who doesn't fear being hurt? c'mon man

i don't,i've had worse things happen in my life than some chick hurting my feelings

good advice

Ahhh, Misty, there is nothing at all wrong with you. The holiday season is hard on everyone. You just get to thinking too much.

NEVER EVER GIVE UP! You are too cute and too much fun. The right one is out there. As said previously by someone wise, you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find the frog you want to kiss for all time.

Hugs, M

You're not alone. It seems as if a woman isn't "perfect" in looks, shape or size, she's totally ignored. The positive side is that a woman just has to forget the guys that are so shallow and continue on, maybe on many other sites.