I get emails saying I have a mutual match. (I think I'm up to four now) But only one shows up. Where did the others go?. Thanks

happens to me to

most of the time they will not talk

I agree.. most of the time they will not talk.

you have to change your email setting to off, because JSH system is a bit screwed up is all.

The best way to view and see if you have any matchs is to log on here.

if you didn't click on them as a match than they won't show up...

what is the point of the mutual match anyway?

oh that is how we do it

i dopnt know

yeah man i dont see the point,but go thru the matches again maybe some more people said maybe 2u. or maybe that 1 really wants u

answer are here


http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/44989

This site is not working for me and others. The answers people give are so simplistic that you would think; "Hey just go there and click on this." Not so. Emails on mutual matches that are not there. Checking settings on my computer and my settings at the site and going no where. What is going on?.

did you go to the posted thread

I hate the mutual match feature, as it ignores my stated pereferences. How does one turn it off?

It is useless I think

Have asked to make it a voluntary feature but no go. I don't do MM much if at all. I have even tried putting it on my profile so the first thing they see is that I don't want to use it, and I still get them and then they don't talk, pfffffftttt!!!!!!!! Screw it. I just delete them. At this time I'm pissed cuz people get to look at my pic and choose when I could care less. I wish they would ask us if we want to participate before they show my profile! But no go. I got tired of writing about it, and the only way they will pay attention to you on here is if tons of people write about the same thing. No one writes, so we are stuck being put on display whether we like it or not.

Have asked to make it a voluntary feature but no go. I don't do MM much if at all. I have even tried putting it on my profile so the first thing they see is that I don't want to use it, and I still get them and then they don't talk, pfffffftttt!!!!!!!! Screw it. I just delete them. At this time I'm pissed cuz people get to look at my pic and choose when I could care less. I wish they would ask us if we want to participate before they show my profile! But no go. I got tired of writing about it, and the only way they will pay attention to you on here is if tons of people write about the same thing. No one writes, so we are stuck being put on display whether we like it or not.

and what the hell is with the double posts???

Have to say I agree. It's a disgusting feature--reminds me of a cattle call. And what makes it even worse is that one's stated preferences are ignored, which results in lots of people never getting any response whatsoever, and possibly, suffering unnecessary hurt feelings. Wonder who thought this up, and whetehr anyone likes it?

I figured out you have to go to the mutual matches more button and say yes no or maybe. Then they show up.
You have to rate them for them to show up as your acceptable list. New thing going on.