Topic: What attribute do you look for?
Cyn1966's photo
Thu 12/06/07 07:42 AM
Just curious here.

Some may think I am a goddess... Others may go ewwwwwwwww.
I think I am average.

So with that said what I am asking is what beyond someones looks keeps you coming back.

I know "looks" is what makes us look at a profile to begin with.
(And you all thought it was the catchy headlines....LOL)
But as I stated at the beginning what one person considers "attractive" may make someone else go huh?

What keeps you talking to and wanting to get to know someone?

Part with me is kindness, I know it can be faked but if you talk for awhile signs will start to show if they are not. Another is a sense of humor.

For if you cannot laugh at this strange experience we call life you are screwed...LOL

I want someone who respects the fact that I have opinions & feelings and will not condem my because I may or may not agree with them.

And nice eyes... flowerforyou

Puffins1958's photo
Thu 12/06/07 07:57 AM
Cyn...

I agree nice eyes are ALWAYS a ++++. I like to make eye contact when I talk to someone, to me it is just an added bonus if they have great eyes to look at. Being able to carry on a conversation...is a must for me.

flowerforyou flowerforyou

wouldee's photo
Thu 12/06/07 08:06 AM
I'm looking for my spoon.laugh laugh laugh :wink:


Can't stack a fork with a spoon.noway

or a knife....noway

or tweezers.....noway

or a magnifying glass.....noway

or a butcher block....noway

or a skewer....noway

or a hammer....noway

but a spoon....love




A spoon is a spoon but by any other name it is a spoon.flowerforyou :heart: bigsmile

Cyn1966's photo
Thu 12/06/07 08:11 AM
Cool!

LMAO @ Woodee!!!!

I also want to add that I look for someone who can offer stimulating & intellectual conversation.

Not interested in someone who's IQ hovers around room temperature who only talks about their fav. contestant on American Idol, or stuck on just one or two subjects...Sorry but I have ran into ppl who are like that.
They make my brain hurt!

My brain needs stimulation dammit!...LMAO...:tongue:

Cyn1966's photo
Thu 12/06/07 08:12 AM
Ooops
LMAO @ Wouldee even...LOL
Damn typos!

:tongue:

rara777's photo
Thu 12/06/07 10:00 AM
Edited by rara777 on Thu 12/06/07 10:03 AM
I totally agree with your opening comment Cyn 1966flowerforyou

I have noticed some of the people on this program as just so shallow. In example: I have chatted with some people on here. Everything was kewl, till I told them that I have a broken leg. Another lady e-mailed me saying looks don`t matter and in the same sentence told me she didn`t like my beard. What the f is up with that.First of all, I`m not here to change anyone, and I`m not changing for anyone.laugh I do like being on this program though, because I have met some really righteous people.And yes the good ones outnumber the bad ones.
Except, I`m not a goddess...or a god...I`m just melol:smile:

rockman888's photo
Thu 12/06/07 10:13 AM
:tongue: yes u r pretty...and i would say above average from what i can see...a chineese man once told me that in order find true'ness in life you have to close your eye's and just get the feel of things....never let words be you leader!..face to face..close your eyes and listen-then feel...then u will know what is real...

Cyn1966's photo
Thu 12/06/07 10:21 AM

:tongue: yes u r pretty...and i would say above average from what i can see...a chineese man once told me that in order find true'ness in life you have to close your eye's and just get the feel of things....never let words be you leader!..face to face..close your eyes and listen-then feel...then u will know what is real...


Very cool rockman!!!

I agee 100%

And thank you so much for your kind words...blushing