I work with my ex she is my boss. I am training to be a manager and it is hard because she basically hates me I can tell. I just dont understand why my friend that works with me flirts with her all the time. Do you think he took her side? I am going to man up and stick it out for 6 months until I become a manager. I work at a resturaunt and its a flirty business. I feel like the outcast and everyone is taking her side and I dont have any friends there. I just dont know why everyone is all about her? She loves attention and I know its great for her and she has a way of getting it. I know what I need to do I just dont know why my friend is all into her even though he wont sleep with her. Why do you think this is so?

I work at a resturant, i cook. and i had somthing similar happen, well still is happening. What i did in this situation is deal with it on a professional level. Your not in relationship with her anymore she is your boss. If you have a problem with your boss talk to her, with no emotion involved, showing no emotion is a must in this situation. The other people? Tell them and be stern with them when and if they talk about her and you, its none of thier business. Be a man about it and act professional and youll get treated as such

wow it seems to me that maybe he either a want your job or b has slept with her but you just dont know it.

It blows me away how many people still get involved in the work place.

Just asking for trouble.

it's a tough one

thank you

it's definately a learning experience thats for sure! Thats how I treat it at this point. yeah yeah?!

Well said and probably the wisest way to deal with this situation.

as far as your once so called friend who is really only a co-worker who cares He's just showing who he really is by trying to score brownie points.

yeah its funny becuase I have been professional after I finally got over this girl. I will say hi, how are you.....nothing else. She insists on flirting with other guys infront of me. I think she has inner personal issues and wants to get my attention by doing so. Shes over weight and I believe she thrives on attention. I'm not giving her the attention she deserves and she flirts with all the other guys, It makes me laugh how they come in on their days off to talk to her. I think they are all sleeping with her I sware its funny. Shes not even that attractive but I think she wants a reaction from me and I am not giving it to her. In response she is a ***** to me I dont know why shes like this. I've never met anyone like this before..

does it really matter???


it's the work place ...how important is this job to you is what you should ask yourself rather than how many of the men she has slept with , is it worth losing your job over? you are there to work not unfold the drama....

and I'll give You a heads up on posting about the work place on line....

I've seen people lose jobs over it.

exactly! Why does it matter, shoot if i seen it id laugh, after all you and all guys here know what her intentions are, and shes doing just that!

Ditch her and the job. I have zero tolerance.

LMFAO, yes this works too!

My very dear friend was sleeping with my husband, (ex-now), and still kissing up to me.....some people are really just breathing, moving piles of feces.

I was gonna post something funny and insightful, but Lily beat me to it... she's everywhere tonight!