I have sent E mails to various women and not 1 read and messaged back. Are they getting them or just ignoring them?

myhardtop,

It is possible that they haven't been logging onto the site.
It is possible that they looked at your profile and were not impressed with it.

Here is an idea: Start a thread in the Rate My Profile forum and let others critique your site profile.

https://mingle2.com/forum/forum/29

no answer means not interested.

Send a personalized email, meaning
- say their profile name and not just say "hi"
- read their profile and mention something in the profile that might make you a good match
(if profile not completed, move on.. not serious, a troll, or just here for the forums)

Your profile name seems to have sexual meaning - most women will avoid you like the plague.

Your profile is not completed. Take a few minutes to complete your profile.

Good luck

I do send a personal E mail to them. I talk about there profile and how close do they want a person to be in mileage range and age range. I give them compliments always.

I don't understand you answer that Myhardtop has a sexual meaning? I run license plates with that name on Myhardtop. Have had it for 15 years and never has anyone ever said that.

If your response here is indicative of who you are then I can see why you have not had any response.Two people have taken the time to offer you sincere advice.You have ignored one and disputed the very apt advice of one of Mingles real ladies.Looking at your physique I wouldn't be in any rush to tell you what I think of you if I was within striking distance.Don't know where you have been hiding if you can't see the sexual connotations in your choice of name.You are not your car even if you think you are.If you are not prepared to listen to advice from well meaning people then why ask ?.

hahaha I did not see the sexual connotation, I thought
you were referring to a car.

M2 is not a menu, it takes time to cut someone from the herd.
What you are experiencing is probably why men take to mass
mailing, hoping a fish somewhere will bite..trouble is,
those emails look exactly like what they are.

The women on here get a LOT more mail than the guys.
You have to stand out in that crowd somehow.
Great pics, most attractive..we can sell you I think ;-)

Enjoin the forums, pick your fish ;-)

I think that its part of the problem hardtop.

Some women will take it as sexual

Some women will take it as youre a car guy showing off your ride

and some women will think well he is materialistic person living midlife crises.

your profile name is the first step of attracting.

Anything that is perceived sexual even if its not, any thing with 69, criminal like Tony Soprano, Richie Aprile, Goodfellas, SopranoBoss, I think you get the pic, will trigger their redflag.

Plus this is a free site and the majority of quality people you will find on here as as likely as finding a sober person at a kennedy family reunion.

You will find more quality people on the forums but on the downside is they probably will live out of state or out of the country.

I wish you the best of luck

This is a very helpful suggestion that I hope you take.Good luck in your search !

Lots of fake profiles on here. There are a few real folks around you just have to know how to find them. Be yourself and maybe you'll click with someone.

I also thought it was in reference to a car. Like convertible. Vs not convertible.
Either that or something to do with a hard hat like in construction.

OP i wish you luck.
Many people here jave given you good advice

Another thing to remember...

When you look at a profile,
check the last online date.

If they haven't been on in over
a month... Don't bother.

And if they are from/in another country,run like the wind!!!

But the wall keeps stopping me.