These days? You have got to be kidding me.
It's not ladies choice where I stand . Sheesh now it's a question of do I wanna not please please please go out with me

Change your profile say things that are really real about yourself not what you think a woman wants to hear, we want honesty not someone that is saying all the right things but can't live up to it. That is alot of the problems with dating websites we get on there and say things that we think people want to hear instead of being genuine and real because when it is all said and done if you can't live up to what you have
e put out there your not going to
have to many dates any way.

blondecsm

So true. !

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the whole thing has become such a mess, and we all bought into it to some degree or another.

someone meek and mild mannered is seen as a loser, when in reality they might actually have it together more than anyone else. the world we live in has defined it as such, and thus it must be, forget reality. that said, there is a reason stereotypes exist, and many more reasons to ignore them, if you're smart about it.

now it seems one of the tricks us guys need to learn is how to balance that we're nice respectable guys, who want to treat a lady with the honor, respect, and dignity they deserve and are worth checking out, because we can have fun while doing so... instead of the bad-boys that wind up hurting them, putting another notch against the Divorced marker and/or the emotionally damaged marker.

my idea of fun doesn't include the urge to jump into bed with someone, at least not until what is supposed to be the highest level of commitment: marriage. yes, having sex is fun, but it isn't strong enough to build a relationship on and have it last.

the problem quintupleB, is that the self proclaimed nice guy has ruined it for the average guy

2) the average nice guy doesnt know what to do around women anymore thanks to third wave feminists.

3) they believe if they are at a woman beck and call that its fine, nothing turns off a confident woman than a man with no back bone.



do you know why young bad boys gets most of the women their age? because they know not act like doormats around women, they may not be able to keep the woman because sooner or later most women wake up to the fact and kicks them to the curb.



the problem a lot of these guys do believe their idea is jump in bed with women from the get go and guys who are not looking for that gets labeled with them

welcome to the new world of dating my friend.

I love the courtesy with which a man treated a woman back in the day. I would swoon for a guy of my age who still masters that kind of courtesy nowadays but I guess it’s rather rare these days.

To me, one of the biggest issues with dating is the actual reason for dating. When we grew up, it was to have fun and get to know someone. Everything moved forward from there if it was going to. Now it seems that some men date only for sex and many women date only for a marriage partner. Totally different agendas.

Woman in person

If I could go back to the casual dating, never been married woman, I'd do it in a heartbeat. Most were less jaded before they were married. Also, a lesser chance of her having kids. And before anyone says anything, I have nothing against kids.

It's just, most of what I see now was not raised like I was or like I raised mine.

I would like casual dating. Having fun, no sex. If the fun stops, no big deal. If a relationship develops --- I believe if you are crazy about each other, with rationale, emotional/mental intimacy, the physical part works out fine. You don't need a "test drive". I'm not a f888g car.

I'm into the casual dating thing. Why can't we just go out and have fun and relax, then both go home to separate houses? I might be doing that tomorrow.

<<<------jealous!

The problem with dating today in this day and age isnt about the options available , its the unrealistic expectations.

Online dating today compared to years ago is like a buffet you have so much to choose from and some takes advantage of it and caught in the middle between those who are desperate and lonely to players looking to add to their bed partners and/or assets are the people who are serious in looking for a meaningful relationship.

Those are the ones I feel sorry for, they do everything honestly and by the book only to run into every freak, wingnut, whack job, married or attached person while looking for their special one.

To those folks I say hang in there and stay true to yourself.

<sigh>

waiting...

The days of anonymous sex with random
wenches, were so much better.

I find it difficult to meet people here in Las Vegas; hence why I'm on this site. So many people seem to be jaded in this town, and there are so many scams out there.

But I keep positive and I'm happy with myself, so whatever happens, happens!

I'll just keep on smiling!!!