When going out with a girl that every guy wants,what should a jealous guy do? I mean I can't even go to the bathroom without guy's throwing phone numbers at her. I have not reacted in anyway but it sure pisses me off! Should I say anything or just suck it up?

You should be proud she is yours !

Maybe that should make you feel pretty darn good.

P.S. can I have her number:)

Don't get me wrong, I'm very proud just feel like I'm competeing

well how is she reacting to all the attention ?

Have you told her how happy you are she chose you?

Hey,remember she is out with you!!

My friend make no mistake....you are always competing. at least you have people there keeping you on your toes. Think about it.

good Q?

She seems to not care but it happens all the time. It's not like she dresses bad or anything. There has been a couple of times guy's have. followed her home which sort of freked both of us out.

Just smile and think, "ohhh man the girl I've got right now is so hot that all those guys want her but they aint got a chance because they can't please her like I do. hehe pitiful mortals "

If you DON'T know how to please her like I do, check out my thread "How to Make Love to a Woman" in the Sex & Dating Forum.

Thanks PUA I'm pretty good in that compartment thankyou.

wow that is kinda freaky , keep a close eye on her for saftey reasons, you must really be a lucky man. Every woman wants a man to protect her and keep her safe , make sure you provide that

~~U SHOULD TAKE IT AS A COMPLIMENT~~IT IS NOT HER FAULT IF SHE IS VERY ATTRACTIVE~~ ~~

yes it is

I agree with the ones who say "take it as a compliment". But I guess for any jealous person it would be even more of a challenge.

That beauty thing is a big dual edge sword. She is beautiful and you find her very attractive..and guess what, so do most all the other people around too!

So what do you do??? Have the confidence to keep her. If she is a good woman, she is already use to handling the guys that are just after her for her looks. Those guys are a daily occurance and she has had to deal with them all her adult life. So know she can handle them on her own most of the time without problem.

I was just talkking to a woman here, I'm very attracted to her and we talk openly. She told me a lot of past dating partners would get jealous because the guys kept after her and she did not like that they would get jealous. As I told her, if she and I start dating, I'm not going to get jealous, because I understand its a fact of life that other guys are going to hit on her. Nothing I can ever do will stop that. So I would sit back and let her take care of that situation, because I believe she can. And she agreed and she said "but if I give you that look" (meaning for me to step in) then of course I'd be right there to make sure things were handled.

I would feel honored knowing that this beautiful woman had all these other choices, but she had chosen ME! Something you never take for granted.

So realize, nothing you can do will change her getting approached because of her beauty. So be that "special man" in her life that can keep her.

Thanks very good advice

Seems like the problem isn't her attractiveness, but your insecurity.

I have been where you are now..I lost the girl because of jealousy. I decided never to allow that to happen again.

Keep your insecurities to yourself. If it becomes overbearing, talk to a friend, BUT NOT TO HER. It is very hard, but it can be overcome.

Good luck to you!!

Thanks for the advice mbcasey, all this has helped out alot, You are right it's all about insecurities on my part, I will just smile and keep going like I am, and she will let me know if she wants me to step in. Thanks all of you!

She Never Lets It Go To Her Heart


Everywhere I go, They're staring at her
Every man I know he wants to have her
I guess I ought to be a jealous man

I look the other way, they're hittin' on her
Every night and every day, they telephone her
They try to get to her but I know they can't

Chorus
She never lets it go to her heart
She never lets it go that far
When they start talking she starts walking
Right back to my arms
She can turn every head
But she never lets it go to her heart

She walks into the room and everybody watches every move
Hoping she don't love me
I know it by the way they hang around

But they don't realize there's more to her than
what meets the eye that's why I'm certain
No matter what they do to reach her now

Repeat Chorus

When they start talking she starts walking
Right back to my arms
She can turn every head
But she never lets it go to her heart


TIM MCGRAW