iffen i had a beer wench at home do you really think i'd be at work drinking with the guys?????

But you said you stay late to wash the confusion away

This is exactly why men don't understand women.... because they leave in the middle of a conversation

is it or men are so slow to catch up or pretending not to understand?

WE can know many unknown things if there is "communication"...be it an ant an elephant or a woman

yes ...you are absolutely correct .....men do not want to understand women.....they leave the conversations and many acts in the middle .....without completing them ......

Women can be understood as many other things in nature if only the right amount of time is spent in the act....of knowing them .....lol

yeah

Really? There was a time when women were understood, honoured, and respected. Women & men were equals and respected for their complementing qualities.
That all changed when 'modern' religion took hold of the world. You know, the modern religions that put MEN in charge and turned women into inferior beings.
If men hadn't been so busy thinking and feeling they're superior for thousands of years, and maybe had invested a little more time in women they now wouldn't have this problem.

We're currently moving back to men & women being equal again, women and esp the feminine principle being honoured and respected.
But clearly we have a long ways to go.

This can be true with women as well, not just men.

If you're referring to my post about them walking away, I was joking with and teasing the other poster, being a total brat. Even I would have walked away from me, lol.

same reason why men are so difficult to understand.

to be honest , i had a lot of relationships with single mom's which they were older than me and i had no problem with that . well of course nothing is perfect ... yet if i meet up with a woman with no kids , there is always a misunderstanding at one . point is , women are different and very special , attractive and deadly at the same time , you just have to open your mind and accept things as they are for things to work ... if you meet up a dead end find a way around it .. simplicity is the key for understanding no matter how rough you think things are ... a woman might test you and do things on purpose just to see how you react about it ..
but i must warn you about something , if you break a woman's heart , there is no going back ... no matter how much she suffer she will drop you !!! even if she stays with you she will be shallow and let you hear what you want to hear and tells you "im fine" "everything is ok" "i love you" .
this means she's not ok and either you will come with a permanent solution to gain her trust , either ur washed with the river.
*Personal Opinion"

Women aren't hard to understand.
It's hard to get a word in with them.
No means no, but sometimes it means keep trying.
Nothing means nothing, except when she says nothing is wrong, which case a man better find what's wrong.
Whatever you want to do means a man should know what she want to do.
That's all I got for now.