Can anyone tell me the reason for every single user directing me to their personal email immediately? It makes me feel they are scamming, but don't know why. I have been directed to email by every single user. Therefore, I must be the ONLY real person here.

Yes you are the ONLY real person

Report and blocl them.

Any time you feel that you have been reached by those that are not on the up and up the site ask that you Report them and block them.. Once the report is made Admin will get the report to determine and deal with each issue reported.

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Kristi

Since messaging here is free (thank you!), scamming is really the only reason to direct to some other email. Almost always a gmail account, isn’t it. These low lifes are the “ropers”, directing you to an address of the real con artist.

BTW, the latest popular scam: “Hey Lover, I’d REALLY love to spend the night with you, but I’ve had trouble in the past so if you could do me this tiny favor and go to this site to sign this “meetup agreement”. Doesn’t cost a thing but they still need your credit card info.

Sound familiar?

so you think it is wise to post that in an open forum and teach them how to do it better?