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Well i am not totally sure what to do. I met a guy out at the bar and we got to talking and such and said i normally date people between 21-25 because i am 21. Hes like cool i am 24 and we ended up hanging out and chilling and making out and such. Well he also told me that he had just got out of a long term relationship and didnt want anything more then friends. I am ok with that but here is the kicker. He called me and told me the other day that he is actually 29 going to be 30 in a week and is actually going thru a divorce and then to top it all off had a baby 4 days ago. What should i do i am confused.
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i would leave him alone as quick as u found him.....if he's going to lie to u about stupid **** now imagine what thats going to lead to
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Dishonesty is NOT a good way to start a relationship of any kind. If he's lies to you right away then I say run the other direction as fast as you can! He could have manned up and told the truth that night and then you would have been able to make an honest decision about him. Now there's really no way you can ever trust anything he tells you. Bad news.
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The question is...what do you want to do?
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Don't answer his calls anymore... he is obviously a liar and a cheat and you shouldn't even waste your time with him. What kind of a loser knocks up a chic and then divorces her.. and not to mention the fact that he lied about his age and his single status...DUMP HIS ASS!!! DON'T WASTE ANYMORE TIME ON HIM!!!
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RUN LIKE HELL ,DONT LOOK BACK HE LIED TO START WITH.
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Edited by
angelcuttie1698
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Mon 12/03/07 02:11 PM
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he lied about his age ..... he lied about being married. god only knows what esle he lied about. manly he lied to you. dump him he aint worth it... trust me i know i been there one to many times.
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drop him...he started out lying.... thats not a good thing...
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dump him..if he lied this soon..he will lie again..move on , get rid of him, dont answer his calls..
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First of all...u met him at a bar and made out with him that first night then he lied about his age and then said he just had a baby and is getting a divorce ....dunno bout u but i would look the other way...good luck!
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hi hun leave well alone hun older womens advice for you
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sweet heart don't be niave.. he's a loser and you deserve better than that...
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Edited by
angelcuttie1698
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Mon 12/03/07 02:13 PM
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I didnt make out this first night it was like the 4th or 5th time hanging out we made out. But is so true thanks for the advice.
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Well i am not totally sure what to do. I met a guy out at the bar and we got to talking and such and said i normally date people between 21-25 because i am 21. Hes like cool i am 24 and we ended up hanging out and chilling and making out and such. Well he also told me that he had just got out of a long term relationship and didnt want anything more then friends. I am ok with that but here is the kicker. He called me and told me the other day that he is actually 29 going to be 30 in a week and is actually going thru a divorce and then to top it all off had a baby 4 days ago. What should i do i am confused. |
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Edited by
Hawaiigurl
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Mon 12/03/07 02:15 PM
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Yes gurl..ur young and pretty and can do better...
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What a jerk that guy is....married with a newborn & he is gonna just dump her....tells you what kind of person he is....he'll treat you no better....there are plenty more fish in the sea....swim away fast....
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Dump him sweetie, once a liar always a liar
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run...run fast...if he started it off with a lie...that sets the track for the rest of the relationship what ever type it may be...no room for that crap!
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run.
RUN like hell. |
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