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Topic: Not sure please help
angelcuttie1698's photo
Mon 12/03/07 02:05 PM
Well i am not totally sure what to do. I met a guy out at the bar and we got to talking and such and said i normally date people between 21-25 because i am 21. Hes like cool i am 24 and we ended up hanging out and chilling and making out and such. Well he also told me that he had just got out of a long term relationship and didnt want anything more then friends. I am ok with that but here is the kicker. He called me and told me the other day that he is actually 29 going to be 30 in a week and is actually going thru a divorce and then to top it all off had a baby 4 days ago. What should i do i am confused.

funluvinggurl's photo
Mon 12/03/07 02:07 PM
i would leave him alone as quick as u found him.....if he's going to lie to u about stupid **** now imagine what thats going to lead to

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Mon 12/03/07 02:08 PM
Dishonesty is NOT a good way to start a relationship of any kind. If he's lies to you right away then I say run the other direction as fast as you can! He could have manned up and told the truth that night and then you would have been able to make an honest decision about him. Now there's really no way you can ever trust anything he tells you. Bad news.

QwicherBytchin's photo
Mon 12/03/07 02:08 PM
The question is...what do you want to do?

reydar's photo
Mon 12/03/07 02:09 PM
Don't answer his calls anymore... he is obviously a liar and a cheat and you shouldn't even waste your time with him. What kind of a loser knocks up a chic and then divorces her.. and not to mention the fact that he lied about his age and his single status...DUMP HIS ASS!!! DON'T WASTE ANYMORE TIME ON HIM!!!

fastlinnie's photo
Mon 12/03/07 02:10 PM
RUN LIKE HELL ,DONT LOOK BACK HE LIED TO START WITH.

angelcuttie1698's photo
Mon 12/03/07 02:10 PM
Edited by angelcuttie1698 on Mon 12/03/07 02:11 PM

cajunwhitetiger's photo
Mon 12/03/07 02:10 PM
he lied about his age ..... he lied about being married. god only knows what esle he lied about. manly he lied to you. dump him he aint worth it... trust me i know i been there one to many times.

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Mon 12/03/07 02:10 PM
drop him...he started out lying.... thats not a good thing...flowerforyou

Sexyklp4U's photo
Mon 12/03/07 02:10 PM
dump him..if he lied this soon..he will lie again..move on , get rid of him, dont answer his calls..

good luckflowerforyou

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Mon 12/03/07 02:11 PM
First of all...u met him at a bar and made out with him that first nightnoway then he lied about his agenoway and then said he just had a babyhappy and is getting a divorcenoway ....dunno bout u but i would look the other way...good luck!flowerforyou

DebbieJT's photo
Mon 12/03/07 02:11 PM
hi hun leave well alone hun older womens advice for you

reydar's photo
Mon 12/03/07 02:11 PM
sweet heart don't be niave.. he's a loser and you deserve better than that...

angelcuttie1698's photo
Mon 12/03/07 02:12 PM
Edited by angelcuttie1698 on Mon 12/03/07 02:13 PM
I didnt make out this first night it was like the 4th or 5th time hanging out we made out. But is so true thanks for the advice.

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Mon 12/03/07 02:13 PM

Well i am not totally sure what to do. I met a guy out at the bar and we got to talking and such and said i normally date people between 21-25 because i am 21. Hes like cool i am 24 and we ended up hanging out and chilling and making out and such. Well he also told me that he had just got out of a long term relationship and didnt want anything more then friends. I am ok with that but here is the kicker. He called me and told me the other day that he is actually 29 going to be 30 in a week and is actually going thru a divorce and then to top it all off had a baby 4 days ago. What should i do i am confused.
sounds to me like hes allready lied to you, hes a looser, kick him to the curb, before you get hurt, end of story.

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Mon 12/03/07 02:15 PM
Edited by Hawaiigurl on Mon 12/03/07 02:15 PM
Yes gurl..ur young and pretty and can do better...happy

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Mon 12/03/07 02:19 PM
What a jerk that guy is....married with a newborn & he is gonna just dump her....tells you what kind of person he is....he'll treat you no better....there are plenty more fish in the sea....swim away fast....

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Mon 12/03/07 02:20 PM
Dump him sweetie, once a liar always a liar

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Mon 12/03/07 02:26 PM
run...run fast...if he started it off with a lie...that sets the track for the rest of the relationship what ever type it may be...no room for that crap!

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Mon 12/03/07 02:29 PM
run.
RUN
like
hell.

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