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Hi crystal . .. the danger in not having your photo up from the start is that physical attractuon does matter when deciding if you want to Get to know someone .. if you bypass that .. then there is always the possibility of disappointment when photos are eventually viewed even if there is a god connection . Personally.. I would not chat with someone who did not have a recent photo unless I felt like a game of Russian roulette It isn't like that. The site is set up so you cannot see each other's pictures until you've exchanged X amount of chat messages. The idea being that you get to know each other, not based on looks but personality. Crystal would you mind sharing the name of that site pls? It's not in English, so I don't think it'll be very helpful to you? |
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Hi crystal . .. the danger in not having your photo up from the start is that physical attractuon does matter when deciding if you want to Get to know someone .. if you bypass that .. then there is always the possibility of disappointment when photos are eventually viewed even if there is a god connection . Personally.. I would not chat with someone who did not have a recent photo unless I felt like a game of Russian roulette It isn't like that. The site is set up so you cannot see each other's pictures until you've exchanged X amount of chat messages. The idea being that you get to know each other, not based on looks but personality. Crystal would you mind sharing the name of that site pls? It's not in English, so I don't think it'll be very helpful to you? Yes that wouldn’t help ... maybe I should learn Dutch |
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Hi crystal . .. the danger in not having your photo up from the start is that physical attractuon does matter when deciding if you want to Get to know someone .. if you bypass that .. then there is always the possibility of disappointment when photos are eventually viewed even if there is a god connection . Personally.. I would not chat with someone who did not have a recent photo unless I felt like a game of Russian roulette It isn't like that. The site is set up so you cannot see each other's pictures until you've exchanged X amount of chat messages. The idea being that you get to know each other, not based on looks but personality. Crystal would you mind sharing the name of that site pls? It's not in English, so I don't think it'll be very helpful to you? Yes that wouldn’t help ... maybe I should learn Dutch |
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crystal from the direction the site works from, i don't think i'd worry about it till you get to face to face and get the same reaction. then you can have a tantrum
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Hi Crystal, for me I guess it's ok - no reaction to photos if he still continues to pursue you or communicate with you showing interest/attraction. He commented on one of your pics, so he didn't totally ignore and maybe he's also just waiting for the time to really show you appreciation about your pics. You're still trying to get to know if he's a suitable lifetime mate [if that's what you're looking for], so I guess no worries yet :)
If your love language [if you're familiar with it] is words of affirmation, I understand it may be difficult if that's how you feel loved/valued. |
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